Thursday, February 18, 2010

Lay Report

HBBoobWeed

In the heat of my Haloween Frat extravaganza that I was swept into, I opened BW’s set with her off somewhere. With my wings KingMelons, Flow, and ___ standing in the center of the room, I locked into the set with a twirl manuever. BW’s friends are gross though so I ejected after I had won the set, she wasn’t there and I had no target in mind. We are deciding whether or not to leave when ___ gets back into my opened set to see if he can pull. I ran more game on whoever was there, but I had already hooked up with my first college chick earlier so I didn’t really care too much.

We begin to walk to Edge’s car, when ___ called, he had successfully pulled the set. I see a new face in the crowd of girls I had deserted. She was about an 8 and the only possible target left. I sat in shotgun in the car but through her drunken rambling I was able to discern that she and I shared intrests. We were both into Zeppelin and LOTR, nerd like at its peak. I built comfort over the shoulder with her and we arrived at Edge’s.

She had a g in her bra and I was ecstatic. Ending this phenominal day blazing was something I was looking forward too. We mostly stayed in a group and discussed a wide variety of topics. We were sitting in a circlish form and nothing was happening in particular. BW, her friend Tubbs, and our friend DC went out to smoke. We went outside and I began to lose mental control. I had no real conversation with BW and I wasn’t really trying, but I began to flirt with her Tubbsy friend because I failed to comprehend reality accordingly. We went back inside and I embarassingly flirted more. The night ended with me wishing there were eleven more German girls where I was.

BW found me on facebook and we already had one friend in common. He started the PUA’s of Boston group on facebook. I joined and he friended me. About a week later she chatted me with something along the lines of “how do you know X?” We began to talk and I trasitioned off of this into comfort. We talked about our beliefs and I made her lol while discussing deep topics like morality and sexuality. FB chat was a really good way for me to build a ton of comfort and rapport, she genuinely liked chatting me and it became fairly regular. Eventually it came up that I was going to The House of Blues with my friend for a Girltalk concert. She said she lived right near there and gave me her number so we could blaze beforehand.

I was kind of confused when she said Tubbs was coming along but I decided to act like I never blammerdly flirted with her and concentrate on BW because I had gotten pretty far along with her on FB chat. We met up and things went really well, we were joking around like we were old friends and talking to eachother comfortably. She pulled another g out of her shirt and I danced with joy. Ignoring her friend worked perfectly too, and my friend and I left on a good note. Now I had her number and a ton of comfort.

She told me she was going away for a while, and I wasn’t too invested so I didn’t care much about it. While she was away we continued having random FB chats and talking intermittently. She was a cool girl to talk to and had some funny opinions. Sometimes we would text trippy thoughts too eachother, helping each other dissect the meanings.

She came back after a while, the night I was going out with Flow and Kingmelons to hit up frats in Boston I texted her to come meet me. She initially said no, but when I texted her “come meet me or I’m cheating on you” she said OK OK where do you wanna meet up. We found eachother at the first frat I went to and she was clinging to me hardcore. I wasn’t really thinking about hooking up with her then but she seemed really into it. I was just excited to run lots of game.

She saw me in about eight to ten different sets, as well as with the girl I succeeded with, HBFreck. Outside when bouncing she fought hard over me and it was so on with both I couldn’t help but chuckle. I din’t have too much contact with her later that night because I was busy hooking up with the other one, but I said my goodbye to her and she and her friends left.

The next weekend she texted me asking what I was doing. I told her I was heading into the city and she said I should come hang out with her. In her dorm. I decided to go for the lay. We got to the party she was at and I had mixed feelings. The party was lame but it presenteds a good opportunity to try with BW. I started the night by taking shots with KingMelons and I was becoming drunk quickly. BW was off talking and I was beginning to become frustrated, I said now or never and got into a set of her and one chodey looking guy.

Blew his ass out and I told her we should smoke, I knew she would be down. We began to leave when she got in another set of guys, I cavemaned her and picked her up over my sholder to leave. The walk back was cold but I escalated kino with her so she knew the deal at least subconsciously. Handholding to putting my armaround her shit was getting intense. We got back to her Tubbsy friends dorm. Her roommate left college so Tubbs had the room to herself and a free bed. While BW and I were trying to figure out the situation with smoking, KingMelons fell asleep lol. Yeah it was on. I felt her skin and was talking about how she was so soft lol. Then I made her stroke me, and I pulled her in to makeout. Got a little LMR blasted through that shit. She stopped me a little and said, “my boyfriend is going to sleep do you mind if I call him?” I was like no I don’t judge. She fucking called her boyfriend and said goodnight ai love you. She hung up and we got in bed, clothes started flying off and yeah first lay from game.

I did what Captain Jack suggested and asked her when she realized she was attracted to me afterwards. She said seeing me that night with all of the other girls she had to try not to make out with me right there. Pre-Selection is extremely powerful in creating attraction. But I think my cocky confidence played just as much of a role in getting her into me.

Thoughts/SP:

Unfortunately I wasn’t really able to convert her into an FB, things got weird when she texted me that she will go to hell for what she has done. And that she can’t trust herself anymore. The next time I invited her out she said she just can’t and I am pretty sure things are over. I need some better strategies for FB management and what to do after sex.

Building comfort over AIM is a great strategy that gets you far, especially with the inherent ambiguity of chat.