8/16/2015
So I
went out last night. I met up with some friends at the Whiskey Priest. It’s a
cool little place around Downtown Boston. I got there around 1030ish and waited
in line for like 5 minutesish to get in. At the very end of the line I opened a
girl in front of me situationally, by asking her which friend of hers she was
going to marry. This was situational because of something she told the bouncer.
So we talked for a bit, and we had a lot in common – both biology students that
lived in Colorado. I asked her why she came to Boston and she said it was to
live with her boyfriend. So there was no real way for this to go further, he
was right there, so I let it go and told her to have a good night.
I then
went to meet my friends who were at the upstairs area. I walked to the back of
the bar and asked a girl if she knew where the upstairs area was. She pointed
up at the stars and then sort of stood there waiting and looking at me after
leading me to a spot where I could see the stairs. I should have pursued the
further. I think I could have started escalating or something like “well now
that I found you I can stay down here” etc. That was a mistake and I shouldn’t have
just walked away. I ejected early… which was kind of a theme for this night. It’s
something I’ve committed to working on.
Regardless of this, I got upstairs
quickly by bribing the door guy with a tenner and met up with my friends.
Upstairs, I saw a sexy blonde girl that I thought I recognized from somewhere.
I opened and we started chatting. She was giving me the bambi eyes when all of
the sudden I recognized that I matched with her on OKCupid before. So I started
to escalate physically a bit, by
touching the area above her hip and shoulder. This went over well, I don’t
think she even flinched. So I decided to go for the kiss. I asked her to give
me an eskimo kiss (thanks Jeffy) and she did it cutely. Then I went in for the
real kiss and got it. I gave her a couple then rolled back off to talking
casually. I kept kissing her a few times during our somewhat boring
conversation. Then I told her that we matched on OKC and she found it funny and
couldn’t remember. Girls get so many matches on that fucking thing. Then I
ejected early like a big pussy. I thought my friends were leaving but they were
still there so I took her number and left. Then I texted her and she has been
unresponsive. Fuck that I’m staying in set for uncomfortable amounts of time
for the next while. That girl was damn hot though, maybe I can get her out
still.
So I went back to my social circle
and we chatted a bit more. I opened two girls next to us by claiming that one
of my attractive male friends is an underwear model. This opened the set
somewhat, but my girl in the set seemed a bit bipolar. She told me she was a
graphic designer and was interested at first, then didn’t believe me when I
told her where I work and wanted to leave. Oh well. I didn’t really give a fuck
that she blew me out.
Then I got blown out one more time,
then I did another set at the bar that didn’t go anywhere. Pretty sub par
overall. But I learned I have a premature ejectulation issue so I’m staying the
fuck in sets for a while after I open.
8/18/2015
I tinder
closed this girl I had been texting with for a while like a gangster. I texted
her at 1230 that we were growing apart, and she invited me over for tequila
shots. We started hooking up about 15 minutes after meeting and had sex for a
few hours. It was super hot and she was a cutie. Hopefully I can see her again sometime,
but then again, my online gaming skills are getting supreme. See, I think that’s
my ideal form of a pull. Sex within 15 minutes of a meet is just unbelievably
gangster to me I think that’s the fastest I have ever pulled it off. I’m
fucking stoked about it – it’s like seeing yourself doing feature film type
shit that was never possible for the historical chode version of you. It feels
amazing, I didn’t realize it until after but that was the kind of shit I always
wanted to be able to accomplish in game and now I have.
8/19/2015
I went
out to a talk about how to start conversations with anyone being held in
Boston. Afterward, we all walked to Harvard square to meet people. I opened two
girls and dragged them into a conversation with myself and this friend I had
gone out with before. It was going alright with the girl I was talking to, she
was a bit cuter but didn’t seem interested. Her friend was slightly less
attractive but she seemed extremely interested in me, like she couldn’t stop
moving and playing with her hair and giggling. I got her number. Her friends
swarmed around these girls and I didn’t leave. I stayed in set until they
peaced out. This went alright.
Later I
opened another two set that started to go well. I stopped them walking and they
said they went to Harvard Law, but were from Switzerland. Once I told them I
had been there they opened up a bit, but were not very receptive seeming. My
girl was very attractive but closed off, like her arms were wrapped and closed
off to me for the first 20 minutes or so of the interaction. I think I should
have tried to be a bit more challenging with her. She was losing interest, but
I didn’t want to escalate physically because I hadn’t isolated her. I need to
throw in some light pushes or something. I was too agreeable.
Later I
opened a 3 set of girls and no one came in, and I wasn’t about to leave, so I
stood there chatting with them for a good 30 minutes. They were really
interesting, and there was one I liked, but I didn’t pursue it with her. I
regret not getting her number to be honest. It was a good exercise in staying
the fuck in set though and I learned a lot about just talking and the “million
dollar mouthpiece”.
Thoughts/SP:
1.
Stay the fuck in set. They fuck you or they fuck
off is my new god damn slogan for the time being.
2.
Add more challenging stuff and experiment with
it to see how that can evolve a set
3.
I have a new found appreciation for what I like to
go for in game. Closing fast is gangster as fuck I think it’s extremely fun and
satisfying when pulled off.