I went
out to a dance party in the center of Cambridge, MA. I have been living with
two girls recently, G and M, which I have found is doing wonders for my game. I
think it puts me in a mood where I can interact with women at all points in a
non-reactive way. This is really key to doing well in the field. So one of them
invited me to a dance party in Cambridge, and the other had a house party lined
up for that night. The sheer amount of options is good as well, and you have
higher value with girls on you.
We go
to the dance party, and not much happened honestly. I randomly danced with a fatty
in the crowd, because it was hilarious. We then went to a burger place to get
the beers there. I flirted with the cashier, and ended up talking to her for 5
minutes or so. I didn’t want more than practice, which I got. She sold me a
massive beer and we drank for a bit. Then we headed to the party that night.
We
walked in and the place looked awesome. There were a bunch of people, and
intricate paintings strewn about near sculptures and dark but colorful
lighting.
I was
introduced to a girl by G in the hallway of the apartment after first entering.
We will call her Israeli girl. It was a very cordial introduction. Soon
afterward we had a quick discussion about the metal underwear suspended by
chains swinging in the hallway. This sexualized her impression of me to her
slightly. Then right after, I sort of floated away while one of my friends
spoke with her. So this could be the first takeaway I did on Israeli girl, I
think she subtly felt me leaving.
I separated from my friend group
and started talking to people in the living room about one of the sculptures,
it was a disgusting human colored slime mold caterpillar type thing with hairs
coming out of it. I tried to talk to a two set of girls, but they were really
absorbed with their phones. There was a tubby girl and a very cute one, they
seemed to feel uneasy all night. Ike they stuck to their little group and didn’t
adventure as far as I saw. So they didn’t really open and I sort of stumbled around,
but felt unfazed, which enabled me to go try again. I should have tried to open
with “I am just an average sized white Russian but I have values”.
I walked into the living room and a girl
popped out of a room, I opened somehow, I think I just introduced myself. She
didn’t stop walking, she had a beer and a cig in hand, so I chose to follow her
and keep a “it’s all part of the plan” frame. We went outside onto the balcony
where she sat and was across from two seemingly gay kids being astounded by a
phone conversation one of them was having. Phones are really gripping, people
would often rather disappear into them then enjoy their immediate surroundings.
After this I opened a mixed two set
to my left, a guy and a girl. The girl was kind of cute, but seemed like
another one of those English majors with no direction. I told her, and she
qualified herself to me by telling me she had an internship. She wasn’t that
cute so I didn’t pursue it too hard aside from just having a regular
conversation.
So then I walked inside, and saw my
friends in the kitchen. I saw the Israeli girl that I had met in the hallway
once again, talking with G. I asked where the beers were, and she offered to get
me one. She got it for me and I said I love you, which was a spike. Then She
even got me a bottle opener and opened it, which was cool. So the frame was set
as her taking care of me, and that I am showing interest in her doing so. Cool.
Then my friend group went to one of the rooms of the party, and I went with
them, to see a different girl one of my friends knew. We meandered into that
room, and I did a second natural takeaway, leaving Israeli girl.
In the room, we bullshitted about
our lives and I tried to make a climbing date with the cute friend of G’s who
we came to meet. She didn’t really agree, so I eased off a bit. We just went
back to steady conversation. Hopefully I can set something up with her later
she is pretty attractive. I heard “Trap Queen” by Feti Wap come on in the
living room with the creepy human slime mold and the rat cage, oh yeah, there
was a giant rat in a cage, and pulled one of my friends, M, to the living room
to dance.
There were at least 15 people going
HAM as one might say to Feti Waps unique auto-tuned and eyeless trap queen. Israeli
girl was there and soon after we came close to each other, and I gave her a
kiss since I felt the micro communications of her body. This was new for me… I
really was calibrated to the very slight interactions of her hands with my
body. The slightest pulls she made and pushes were clearly indicative of her
attraction level in my mind, as well as with her conflicting interpretation of
the attraction, she couldn’t commit to a pulling or pushing and was dong both
based on my state fluctuations. This is good, I was setting the frame and she
was reacting to me, hard. I kissed her and she said she had a boyfriend, and he
was outside on the porch, so she can’t do this. Cool. I rolled off a bit.
Takeaway number three. I went back and danced with people for longer.
Then I found a hammer on top of the
rat cage, thank the lord that I found this. This turned out to be a tool of
such creativity for people at the party it was astounding. I handed the hammer
to G, with the clear expectation that she would smash the fuck out of the wall
now. Oh yeah, did I not mention it was that kind of party? Yes, it was a come
destroy my house kind of party. G asked if she could smash the wall, and one of
the people living there just said “you gotta do, what you gotta do.” The whole
house was filled with rad fucking people. G fucked up the wall pretty epicly, but
didn’t do shit compared to Israeli girl. She came back I walked up and spiked
her emotions with some kino, to get her sexually frustrated. She then said that
she was extremely frustrated and that her situation was fucked with her
boyfriend. Then I gave her the hammer. She went at the wall like a writer
facing their block. It was awesome, The picture is posted below. This is
possibly the most creative emotional spike I have ever come up with – some of my
best pick up art. This destruction was caused by the force my sexuality exerted
on Israeli girl. LMAO. At least partially. I also made it my snap chat story.
Then Israeli girl left again
running away somewhere into the party. I kept dancing and hanging out with the
new living room people that I was meeting. The friend of G’s from earlier came
in and I tried to kino with her a bit. I
grabbed her hand and interlaced our fingers, twirling it around on my left.
It felt surprisingly natural and easy… I think I will have to integrate this
into more sets in the future. She was the hostess so she quickly got distracted
and ran away, but I still learned that from her a bit. I tried to talk to her
about Europe since she wanted to go, but it was to no avail. I think I should
have added more pushes or spikes with her that were negative. She was getting
bored and I couldn’t hold her attention. I think I need to calibrate to this
fact. Look at the role of the girl
within the context of the environment, and calibrate my game to her social
standing. Like if the girl is a host, you have to do more to keep her
interested than regular game. More pushes are needed. It’s probably the same
with hot girls who think they have the highest value in the environment.
I don’t remember exactly how this
context arose, but I was standing on the balcony/porch with Israeli girl and
next to her. I got her a lighter for her cigarette, and then smoked a bit of it
with her. She let me play with her back a bit and escalate that way, which I
was thinking was going to be okay, because she was next to me, so it was only
us who would know this was going on. This goes back to RSD Julien’s concept of
watching out for the Michael, that has helped me a lot to visualize when it’s
okay to escalate and how to make it a judgment free place for women. If you don’t
know that concept, you have to look up the Michael analogy. It has single
handedly made me really aware of all judgment as well as female psyche in those
situations with a simple analogy. I got it from PIMP which is a great product.
So since it was hidden, she allowed me to escalate, and later mimicked that
escalation with me, but that time she initiated.
Later I was in the kitchen with Israeli
girl, and she said she was going to bed. I said good bye to her, but I did
something really well calibrated that got be the lay. I think this was the
defining reason why I fucked her. Before she left, I picked her up with the
spin hug and kissed her in the air. Another massive attraction spike.
Attraction is not a choice – doing this then doing a take away was probably
just like tearing at her with a desire to depart from her boyfriend.
She left for a bit to “go to sleep”
while I went to hang out with G and her boyfriend. I spoke to her boyfriend
quite a bit, and he asked me what the biggest thing I ever climbed was. My ego
was excited to spray so I vented it a bit, showing him my pictures of my
ascents of El Cap and Half Dome. Israeli girl sort of creeped up next to me,
and I sensed her there, but didn’t immediately turn to her like a chode, even
though she was sort of playing with my side like I did with her earlier. Thanks
Tyler Durden for illustrating this in the blueprint, it’s the shit. Don’t
immediately give the girl all your attention like a chode, finish the conversation.
Then It was just a logistical discussion from there onward.
I pulled her to my house/bed and
went to the bathroom, to show her that it was a relaxed environment where she
could leave at any point. Then I came back and her shirt was off, so I got the
lay.
This was a really fucking fun way
to break a three month dryspell, and the first time I have fucked a girl whose
boyfriend was at the fucking venue. He hadn’t fucked her in 5 months
apparently, and this was really adding to her frustration. So we broke each
other’s dry spells.
Thoughts/Sticking Points:
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Don’t immediately give the girl all your
attention like a chode, finish the conversation.
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Look at the role of the girl within the context
of the environment, and calibrate my game to her social standing.
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Grabbing, interlacing, and playing with the hand/s
is the shit and is an easy and a cute/fun way to kino
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Look out for Michael and ensure the judgment
free environment, whether it’s emanating from you or the surroundings
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Let natural spikes drive the interaction like
attraction boosts. Us them as a tool to move things in the direction suitable
for the situaton
