Logistics:
Saturday January 23rd, 2010.
Locations: Frat Party1, Frat Party2
Wings: KingMelons, Flow, Legend, Edge
Pivot: BW
Report:
KingMelons and I got dropped off by a friend to meet up with Flow. After some discussion and text persuasion we decide to be at Frat1 at 11. At first BW was resilient to coming. She didn’t have a ride and she said the world was a scary place lol. I said ok. After 20 minutes I texted her that if she wasn’t coming I would cheat on her with NBC figure skaters. She caved and said shed meet us at Frat1. We begin making our way to the frat and do a couple warm up sets at the store. I decide to use “who lies more”, my standard opinion opener because I have it worked out. Hooks, it pumps my state a little, we head to Frat1.
We meet up with Legend and Edge at the door outside Frat1. Legend has written books on how to get into any party, and he managed to get both of the doormen to vouch for him lol. Being a supposed mpua comes with some fascinating knowledge. He even gets the doorman to vouch for all of us and they let us in the Frat after a short wait.
I wander around and open my first set of the night. It was a two-set containing a cute girl and her swamp monster of a friend. I approach with my standard direct group opener, “you guys seem cool blah” and it hooks. We get into a conversation when Flow comes in. Since the one girl was really cute, about a 9, he was into the set. We talked and things were going kind of well, but we stayed on a neg (you look like you’re from Kansas) for too long and the set was beginning to stall out. I got a call from BW anyway and went to meet her at the front.
She couldn’t get in at first, so I go back upstairs and meet up with Kingmelons and Legend. I see a four set and tried Sinn’s facebook opener. After I teased for accepting me to easily, a 7 in the set said something like “I didn’t hear you so I just said yes”. Either way it didn’t matter because a fucking AMOG stumbled in to blow my ass out. He imitated me and said “I’m using cheesy pickup lines blah blah”. Anyway I lost the set, I got into a battle with him and I think he won. I was trying to win by exaggerating frame (I asked him if he was a broom because he swept me off my feet), but the girls walked away mid battle so it didn’t matter lol.
BW got into the party somehow and met up with me. We were flirting as soon as she got there and she was all over me. I still wanted to run more game though so I ditched her after some light kino escalation.
Flow and I hooked more sets easily near where the beer funnel was, direct group openers tore up any transitioning period I would have to worry about. We ended up in an ok set and we wanted to leave so it didn’t really matter to us. BW kept finding me and grabbing my arm, trying to get my attention and stuff throughout the night. I used her to open an OK four set that went well. They left to dance and wanted her to go but she stayed with me. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit. Her friends came and Flow and I went to game more.
He pointed out HBFreck in the hallway. He told me she went to highschool too, and said I should approach her. I decided to go give it a shot. I opened her with “I heard you’re in high school” lol. At first she was like who told you but then when I told her I was too she went nuts. We had a world between us because of that commonality. We discussed how badass we are and how our friends are all pussys. She starts touching over me, kino escalating me hard. She gives me a shot of some liquor she had. Then BW walked into the set and I gave her a hug (JEALOUSY PLOTLINE BEGINS NOW MUHUHAHAHA). I lean back against the wall where I was standing with HBFreck and her attraction level is spiking. She’s giving me the eyes and presses up against me. I gaze back at her and she starts pulling my head in, she wanted to make out right there in set with KingMelons, Flow, and BW. I push her away and say “not now woman we’re in public”. She loves this and wraps herself around me. I told her I was leaving with Flow and our group to another frat and she wanted to roll w/ but needed to find her friend first. She found her friend and we started walking out. The second we get outside I look at her for a second inquisitively, then I just pulled her in and we made out. She went nuts for the five seconds we hooked up and then I pushed her off, it’s good to be challenging.
I’m outside in conversation with both BW and HBFreck, they are politely bitching each other out. That’s fucking right, girls were subtly fighting over me. Both of them were glaring at me with blatant "fuck me" eyes. If you know what I'm talking about it's unmistakable. I turned around and told Flow “I won the game” lol. We started to leave when Freck’s friend started freaking out and questioning where we were going and logistical stuff. Her friend wanted to go back to the party, and HBFreck told me she couldn’t go with me. I remembered not to beg her for anything and looked at her saying “if you want to stay that’s fine”. She convinced her friend to go with us.
We get to the destination but don’t really know the address, so we walk into some apartment building by accident. I cycle between hooking up and sexually framing her against the wall, I was setting things up for the SNL. I already worked out that she didn’t have to be home until she wanted too so I felt like It was set. We arrive at Frat2 and HBFreck won’t leave my side. Things seemed to be good and the best thing I could do was nothing. As it ended up however, neither of my wings attracted HBFreck’s friend enough to make her want to come back with us to Flow’s dorm. Extremely disappointing, because she ended up pulling the cockblock. HBFreck helplessly tried convincing her friend to let me put it in, but she couldn’t win. I got the number and plan on trying some new text game theory I’ve been learning about on her. A day2 would almost certainly end happily if I just don’t mess things up.
Flow and I open another set of people downstairs, a mixed set with three guys and two girls. We opened asking if KingMelons looked gay and disqualified with sexual preference. They rolled off but later I reopened with “who lies more”. The cute one in a bikini began to answer it when I cut her off with a cold read. I told her she looked like she wasn’t from around here or some BS and couldn’t really isolate. She ran off and we decided to bounce. Missed the fucking SNL, but I was close.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Sexual tension may have dissipated after I made out with HBFreck for too long at Frat2, I should reduce hooking up to preserve tension, instead I’ll qualify more next time
2) Instead of getting into AMOG battles I’ll ignore next time
3) The non-reactive answer to her threatening to leave went over perfectly. I’ll remember this
4) Jealousy fucking plotlines kill
5) Plowing can be used in the middle of people sentences effectively, interrupting
6) Two sets are a logistical problem.
7) Creating a private world creates an instant connection that sparks huge amounts of attraction, integrate this into a routine possibly roll-playing more often
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
FR: DRect
Logistics:
Sunday January 17th, 2010
Location: Tabu
Friends: KingMelons, Tallz, LSER, Yacob
Report:
Since too many things happened over the course of the night for me to remember the chronological order, I plan on making this more like a highlight reel of the night / observations type of report. I noticed a lot of interesting things and had a great night experimenting with only direct game. The only opener I used on groups was “I’ve been wandering around this bar looking for cool people to talk to and I can’t find any, but now I’ve found you guys, and we’re in a conversation. Cool.” The only opener I used on lone wolves was something that ranged from “you’re cute” to “you’re so fucking sexy”.
I roll into Tabu with KingMelons by my side, trying to come up with a game-plan. We walk to the non-dancing section and saw barely any sets. Most girls were on the dance floor standing or grinding with guys. This wasn’t an optimal situation for the night. But to start getting warmed up, I decided to dance with some girls, as it’s becoming second nature to me at this point to confidently approach on the dance floor. I still remember when I would look in and see guys doing crazy shit to the girls. I was intimidated by the insanity of the dance floor and would be too scared to try. It’s not the same at all, just a couple months later.
I started going from girl to girl in the hectic dimly lit environment, and I became calm and centered quickly. I felt like I was ready to do some approaches for real and just have a good time, because worst case I could always dance more. I walk to the seated area and get into a set with KingMelons. He points out his target with the tweedle-dum/tweedle-dee line and I distract the obstacles. He wandered away so I decided it was pointless and moved on.
I open a four set leaning against the bar with my group direct opener. It hooks immediately and they ask me where I’m from. The conversation began to stall out though, I couldn’t tell what to do because I felt material would regress my game since I went direct. I think I’ll use more attraction material in set next time.
I also opened a two set directly later. Same thing happened it hooked and went extremely well. We talked for about ten minutes until I had to meet my friend, I met up with them later on the dance floor. That one was a lot more natural and didn’t stall out. I was just being funny and having a good time.
I ran the direct opener on a five set. Same thing it blew open and they were all talking to me, fascinated that I could say something like that. One was like, do you want to take a picture with us? I said sure and the flash went off, with me in the middle of five fucking girls. PRESELECTION, especially when we went to dance later and they were all dancing around me. I was like the 10 in a group of hungry guys, except they were famished girls.
Opened another seated two set the same way. Again it hooked the second I closed my mouth. What is this? Do I have magical powers? Am I a warlock of some sort? No direct game fucking rules. But they ran to the bathroom for some girlish reason so it didn’t really go anywhere.
I didn’t even fuck around on the dance floor either, I was making my intent super clear all night. I remember one time when a wing and I were walking around looking for girls to dance with, I walked right up to them and loudly asked him which one he wanted. I honestly gave a fuck if they understood, which they definitely did bc I was pointing at them and shit while they were staring at us deciding which ones to take. Making intent known conveys ridiculous attraction and generates compliance, the dominant frame owns all.
At one point I was grinding with a girl and a black kid walked up behind one of her friends. Calmly, he used his hand to push her down on all fours, and started dry humping her from behind. Through all of our laughing and watching, he didn’t react to me or my girl once. He stayed congruent and he had that girl bent over for about fifteen minutes. At one point he made it ok for me, my girl said I could do that if I wanted, but I just felt uncomfortable raping on the dance floor. Another example of how congruence and dominant frame always prevails. Because he didn’t care what any of us thought, he was able to get away with scandalous shit I wouldn’t dream of. The extent that this applies with women blows my mind.
I managed to completely change one girl’s mentality through a combination of investment hoops and vulnerability bonding. I walked up to KingMelons in set and he pointed out his target. He wanted to dance with her but her group wouldn’t go because of their shy friend. I was like, “OK which one is she” lol. They pointed her out to me and I told her she looked cute. She was like thanks and I was like omg we have to dance, you have nothing to worry about. She initially said no, then I was like “are you serious? I’m a total dork I play Zelda all day I’m harmless”. She was laughing so I decided to try Brad P’s slow dancing technique again to make her more comfortable; I also figured it was a good medium hoop before grinding. We sweetly sway together to the blasting music while she firmly squeezes my hand. I tell her that she’s bringing up memories of sixth grade all over again. Finally Melons set and shy girl walk out to the dance floor, where I look at her like ok you’re ready and I flip her around to grind. Switchin’ up them mindsets BITCHEZ!
TWO MOST IMPORTANT SETS:
I learned the most from these sets, so I’ll describe them with a little more accuracy. The first girl I’ll call HBLibrarian. By consensus of LSER, KingMelons, and I she was a solid 9.5 if not 10 up close. She was gorgeous, it seemed like the whole club was looking at her. I opened her up directly (obv), I told her she was totally my type and I had to talk to her. I positioned myself against the bar so she was leaning next to me. BL down. We began to banter and I was throwing chick crack her way. Saying things like OMG I don’t date book nerds you need to get away from me come here I love you blah blah etc. I managed to flirt for about two minutes then we started to talk. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. For some reason I thought that was a shit test. I now realize how low my self-esteem really is, I couldn’t believe a ten was into me. It is completely out of my reality that she could like me, so I fucked up. I told her I was dating twenty girls here which was retarded because she was into me and I blew her off. So she told me to go find them then. Completely understandable response. I stayed in damage control with her for another minute or so when her peer group came. I told was talking to them about how their librarian friend was taking me to the “do it yourself” section, and I was like what do you mean do it yourself?? Lol they were laughing at her. But again she told me to go find my girlfriends. I think that was a shit-test now but I just left, thinking I fucked shit up.
I found HBLibrarian later seated. She was looking at me and biting her lips, it felt so on. I took her to the dance floor and she was doing crazy shit I had no idea what was going on. I also had everyone looking at me and didn’t feel relaxed, I was wondering what she was thinking. I told her she was a bad dancer and wanted to qualify to see where I was. I asked her what type of music she liked against the bar again but attraction was gone so she said everything. FUCKFUCKFUCK. Another ten slipped through my fingers. Whatever, abundance says there are tons of hot chicks out there and I was fired up.
I go back out to the dance floor. I saw this chick, she was texting, while people were smashing privates all around her. I walked up and I was like what the fuck are you texting for lets dance. She kind of sucked but she was cute so I stayed with her for a couple minutes.
Then out of the corner of my eye, like it was fate, I spot an HB9 walk by me to the edge of the dance floor. She was sooo my type, about 5’ 4” with a nice ass and her tities were pushing out her sexy schoolgirl attire. She was looking into the floor alone and I realized that was my chance. I fucking threw the girl I was with off me and headed towards her. I tell her “you’re so fucking sexy, let’s dance”. No pussy-footing around. Makeout. Then she walked away. It was a pretty gangster kiss close in my opinion. Wicked night for me and KingMelonz overall.
SP / Thoughts:
1) The ten problem will only resolve itself with more experience in field
2) Need more A2 material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct game is cheating (my new favorite style)
4) A good PUA can change mindsets easily with calibration and sets of investment hoops
5) Maybe I should take a dance class with Melons
6) Dominant frame and non-reactivity overrides social awkwardness
Sunday January 17th, 2010
Location: Tabu
Friends: KingMelons, Tallz, LSER, Yacob
Report:
Since too many things happened over the course of the night for me to remember the chronological order, I plan on making this more like a highlight reel of the night / observations type of report. I noticed a lot of interesting things and had a great night experimenting with only direct game. The only opener I used on groups was “I’ve been wandering around this bar looking for cool people to talk to and I can’t find any, but now I’ve found you guys, and we’re in a conversation. Cool.” The only opener I used on lone wolves was something that ranged from “you’re cute” to “you’re so fucking sexy”.
I roll into Tabu with KingMelons by my side, trying to come up with a game-plan. We walk to the non-dancing section and saw barely any sets. Most girls were on the dance floor standing or grinding with guys. This wasn’t an optimal situation for the night. But to start getting warmed up, I decided to dance with some girls, as it’s becoming second nature to me at this point to confidently approach on the dance floor. I still remember when I would look in and see guys doing crazy shit to the girls. I was intimidated by the insanity of the dance floor and would be too scared to try. It’s not the same at all, just a couple months later.
I started going from girl to girl in the hectic dimly lit environment, and I became calm and centered quickly. I felt like I was ready to do some approaches for real and just have a good time, because worst case I could always dance more. I walk to the seated area and get into a set with KingMelons. He points out his target with the tweedle-dum/tweedle-dee line and I distract the obstacles. He wandered away so I decided it was pointless and moved on.
I open a four set leaning against the bar with my group direct opener. It hooks immediately and they ask me where I’m from. The conversation began to stall out though, I couldn’t tell what to do because I felt material would regress my game since I went direct. I think I’ll use more attraction material in set next time.
I also opened a two set directly later. Same thing happened it hooked and went extremely well. We talked for about ten minutes until I had to meet my friend, I met up with them later on the dance floor. That one was a lot more natural and didn’t stall out. I was just being funny and having a good time.
I ran the direct opener on a five set. Same thing it blew open and they were all talking to me, fascinated that I could say something like that. One was like, do you want to take a picture with us? I said sure and the flash went off, with me in the middle of five fucking girls. PRESELECTION, especially when we went to dance later and they were all dancing around me. I was like the 10 in a group of hungry guys, except they were famished girls.
Opened another seated two set the same way. Again it hooked the second I closed my mouth. What is this? Do I have magical powers? Am I a warlock of some sort? No direct game fucking rules. But they ran to the bathroom for some girlish reason so it didn’t really go anywhere.
I didn’t even fuck around on the dance floor either, I was making my intent super clear all night. I remember one time when a wing and I were walking around looking for girls to dance with, I walked right up to them and loudly asked him which one he wanted. I honestly gave a fuck if they understood, which they definitely did bc I was pointing at them and shit while they were staring at us deciding which ones to take. Making intent known conveys ridiculous attraction and generates compliance, the dominant frame owns all.
At one point I was grinding with a girl and a black kid walked up behind one of her friends. Calmly, he used his hand to push her down on all fours, and started dry humping her from behind. Through all of our laughing and watching, he didn’t react to me or my girl once. He stayed congruent and he had that girl bent over for about fifteen minutes. At one point he made it ok for me, my girl said I could do that if I wanted, but I just felt uncomfortable raping on the dance floor. Another example of how congruence and dominant frame always prevails. Because he didn’t care what any of us thought, he was able to get away with scandalous shit I wouldn’t dream of. The extent that this applies with women blows my mind.
I managed to completely change one girl’s mentality through a combination of investment hoops and vulnerability bonding. I walked up to KingMelons in set and he pointed out his target. He wanted to dance with her but her group wouldn’t go because of their shy friend. I was like, “OK which one is she” lol. They pointed her out to me and I told her she looked cute. She was like thanks and I was like omg we have to dance, you have nothing to worry about. She initially said no, then I was like “are you serious? I’m a total dork I play Zelda all day I’m harmless”. She was laughing so I decided to try Brad P’s slow dancing technique again to make her more comfortable; I also figured it was a good medium hoop before grinding. We sweetly sway together to the blasting music while she firmly squeezes my hand. I tell her that she’s bringing up memories of sixth grade all over again. Finally Melons set and shy girl walk out to the dance floor, where I look at her like ok you’re ready and I flip her around to grind. Switchin’ up them mindsets BITCHEZ!
TWO MOST IMPORTANT SETS:
I learned the most from these sets, so I’ll describe them with a little more accuracy. The first girl I’ll call HBLibrarian. By consensus of LSER, KingMelons, and I she was a solid 9.5 if not 10 up close. She was gorgeous, it seemed like the whole club was looking at her. I opened her up directly (obv), I told her she was totally my type and I had to talk to her. I positioned myself against the bar so she was leaning next to me. BL down. We began to banter and I was throwing chick crack her way. Saying things like OMG I don’t date book nerds you need to get away from me come here I love you blah blah etc. I managed to flirt for about two minutes then we started to talk. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. For some reason I thought that was a shit test. I now realize how low my self-esteem really is, I couldn’t believe a ten was into me. It is completely out of my reality that she could like me, so I fucked up. I told her I was dating twenty girls here which was retarded because she was into me and I blew her off. So she told me to go find them then. Completely understandable response. I stayed in damage control with her for another minute or so when her peer group came. I told was talking to them about how their librarian friend was taking me to the “do it yourself” section, and I was like what do you mean do it yourself?? Lol they were laughing at her. But again she told me to go find my girlfriends. I think that was a shit-test now but I just left, thinking I fucked shit up.
I found HBLibrarian later seated. She was looking at me and biting her lips, it felt so on. I took her to the dance floor and she was doing crazy shit I had no idea what was going on. I also had everyone looking at me and didn’t feel relaxed, I was wondering what she was thinking. I told her she was a bad dancer and wanted to qualify to see where I was. I asked her what type of music she liked against the bar again but attraction was gone so she said everything. FUCKFUCKFUCK. Another ten slipped through my fingers. Whatever, abundance says there are tons of hot chicks out there and I was fired up.
I go back out to the dance floor. I saw this chick, she was texting, while people were smashing privates all around her. I walked up and I was like what the fuck are you texting for lets dance. She kind of sucked but she was cute so I stayed with her for a couple minutes.
Then out of the corner of my eye, like it was fate, I spot an HB9 walk by me to the edge of the dance floor. She was sooo my type, about 5’ 4” with a nice ass and her tities were pushing out her sexy schoolgirl attire. She was looking into the floor alone and I realized that was my chance. I fucking threw the girl I was with off me and headed towards her. I tell her “you’re so fucking sexy, let’s dance”. No pussy-footing around. Makeout. Then she walked away. It was a pretty gangster kiss close in my opinion. Wicked night for me and KingMelonz overall.
SP / Thoughts:
1) The ten problem will only resolve itself with more experience in field
2) Need more A2 material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct game is cheating (my new favorite style)
4) A good PUA can change mindsets easily with calibration and sets of investment hoops
5) Maybe I should take a dance class with Melons
6) Dominant frame and non-reactivity overrides social awkwardness
Sunday, January 17, 2010
FR: Melon Party
Logistics:
Saturday, January 16th 2010
Location: Melons House
Wings: YP, KingMelons, RM, Tallz
Pivot: SM, EB, Redz
Report:
I knew I would have a hard time at this party, because I got substantially high beforehand. Honestly, I was looking down at the world underneath my feet. Lime Haze is powerful. But either way, I couldn’t just sit and relax even though I wanted too. I have turned myself into a game machine, and I can’t stop my body from throwing me into sets at this point. My game was off for the most part because of this paradox, and yet the report goes as follows.
Returning to KingMelons house from downtown Boston at around 9, the party began. No one was really there at first, so I got into a heated game of ping pong downstairs with a couple friends. Then people began to file in. At first, they were all people from my school that I knew, so I wasn’t too stoaked, but I knew I could still have fun. I went upstairs to talk to KingMelon, then when I went back down An HB9 who I hadn’t talked to in three years but I used to be friends with was in the doorway. She stopped me and we began to chat.
She brought up callback humor. The name I used to call her, fetus, made me laugh and we talked for a little before she said that the conversation was a little awkward. I asked her why, and she pointed at this girl next to her who was laughing. I actually hadn’t seen her until she pointed her out. Lol talk about tunnel vision. She was an HB2 at the most who I guess was laughing while I was trying to mack. Anyway I looked at her puzzled, and ejected because I wanted to get some beer.
Later I went back to talk to her by walking up next to her and talking to EB, who was on her other side. I struck up a conversation with her, but by the time I turned around my target had left… FUCK. I had time but I was waiting for a cue or something that never came. I need to take more initiative game wise.
Next my friend YP arrived, and he had a HB9+ from his school on his side. I asked if he was going for her and he was. Upsetting, but I understood. I AI’d YP with the girl and went off into some set of my friends for random conversation.
Finally new girls came, and I was pulled into set with them by Tallz. He AI’d me and I began to talk, but my game was so off I couldn’t keep a convo going with these girls. There was nothing particularly attractive about them, but I decided to try to run Best Friends Test anyway to see if it would work. It absolutely bombed, proving even more to me that game isn’t about what you say it’s about your attitude and the frame you put out. Good mental side note. Since they weren’t responding I just ejected.
I chilled with friends for a while until another new set of girls came. In the party area, they walked in and positioned themselves against the wall. They were alright, but sitting and watching the chode crystal slowly form from across the room was interesting enough for me to not approach yet. RM who is pretty competent approached first, and then hordes followed. They were peering over each others shoulders at the girls while he gamed, and I was explaining the chodes loss of value from bad BL to a friend sitting next to me. He could see it happening as well.
After RM rolled out, the chode stalactite fell apart and the girls were by themselves. I begin to make eye contact with one of them, and she is receptive. We hold each others gaze for about four seconds before she looks away. Again, I felt like I would blow it, but I approached anyway. I walk up to the girl who made eye contact and said “hi”. I introduced myself to her and her friends and we talked for a little until she became completely non-responsive and said “I’m so high right now”. I laughed and back turned her because I legitimately fail at plowing under the influence, it’s kind of sad but at least I know my SP’s vary based on states of consciousness.
Some time goes by and I go upstairs because new people are arriving again. I spot SM and give her a hug. We get into a conversation about her fight with YP and I tell her that if he asks I think she’s a man eating bitch. It creates a sexual tension barrier between us that I know will make things flirty for the night. She introduces me to some cute friends of hers, strolling me in on my arm. I talk to the group and all of them begin to ask questions about me, and I am finally in state. It took three failed sets but it happened, even under the influence. I didn’t think it was possible. The problem is that my state is situational, it needs to be from within. I still have inner game issues to work on.
Anyway, I leave SM’s set to give YP some consolation. I tell him she’s the devil, he happens to be in a mixed 6 set, with 3 girls (an HB4, and two HB9’s). I begin to talk to the set as a whole and they are loving me. We talk about the usual shit, then I notice the cuter HB9 is giving me shit tests. I look at her and roll my eyes then continue talking to one of the guys. Reds walked out of the house behind me and I gave her a hug for pre-selection. Then I negged the target in group for making a loud pointless comment and her group laughed. After that she started giving me IOI’s like a free candy. She was asking me where I was from, who I was, and the typical boring stuff. I ignored half her questions to talk to the group, then I told her I was Russian and she kept saying Russian phrases to try to get my attention. When she said I love you I looked and said aww. I asked her for her name which I now forgot and was about to sit next to her and ask her a small qualification hoop question when she had to go…
Didn’t really get to take that interaction anywhere but before she left I called her a dork and she responded with “that’s rude” smiling. I rolled my eyes once again and her set along with SM and the rest of the girls left. Interesting night.
SP / Thoughts:
1) Negging works like a fucking charm, I tease normally, but her interest here spiked so fast it was ridiculous
2) I need to have a sold structure to my game. Winging it doesn’t really get me the results I want
3) Struggling with inner game issues
4) Need to learn how to AI wings better
5) Stop ejecting out of set when things are going fine
6) Gaming high makes me have to relearn the basics, I should try to stay sober or tips
Saturday, January 16th 2010
Location: Melons House
Wings: YP, KingMelons, RM, Tallz
Pivot: SM, EB, Redz
Report:
I knew I would have a hard time at this party, because I got substantially high beforehand. Honestly, I was looking down at the world underneath my feet. Lime Haze is powerful. But either way, I couldn’t just sit and relax even though I wanted too. I have turned myself into a game machine, and I can’t stop my body from throwing me into sets at this point. My game was off for the most part because of this paradox, and yet the report goes as follows.
Returning to KingMelons house from downtown Boston at around 9, the party began. No one was really there at first, so I got into a heated game of ping pong downstairs with a couple friends. Then people began to file in. At first, they were all people from my school that I knew, so I wasn’t too stoaked, but I knew I could still have fun. I went upstairs to talk to KingMelon, then when I went back down An HB9 who I hadn’t talked to in three years but I used to be friends with was in the doorway. She stopped me and we began to chat.
She brought up callback humor. The name I used to call her, fetus, made me laugh and we talked for a little before she said that the conversation was a little awkward. I asked her why, and she pointed at this girl next to her who was laughing. I actually hadn’t seen her until she pointed her out. Lol talk about tunnel vision. She was an HB2 at the most who I guess was laughing while I was trying to mack. Anyway I looked at her puzzled, and ejected because I wanted to get some beer.
Later I went back to talk to her by walking up next to her and talking to EB, who was on her other side. I struck up a conversation with her, but by the time I turned around my target had left… FUCK. I had time but I was waiting for a cue or something that never came. I need to take more initiative game wise.
Next my friend YP arrived, and he had a HB9+ from his school on his side. I asked if he was going for her and he was. Upsetting, but I understood. I AI’d YP with the girl and went off into some set of my friends for random conversation.
Finally new girls came, and I was pulled into set with them by Tallz. He AI’d me and I began to talk, but my game was so off I couldn’t keep a convo going with these girls. There was nothing particularly attractive about them, but I decided to try to run Best Friends Test anyway to see if it would work. It absolutely bombed, proving even more to me that game isn’t about what you say it’s about your attitude and the frame you put out. Good mental side note. Since they weren’t responding I just ejected.
I chilled with friends for a while until another new set of girls came. In the party area, they walked in and positioned themselves against the wall. They were alright, but sitting and watching the chode crystal slowly form from across the room was interesting enough for me to not approach yet. RM who is pretty competent approached first, and then hordes followed. They were peering over each others shoulders at the girls while he gamed, and I was explaining the chodes loss of value from bad BL to a friend sitting next to me. He could see it happening as well.
After RM rolled out, the chode stalactite fell apart and the girls were by themselves. I begin to make eye contact with one of them, and she is receptive. We hold each others gaze for about four seconds before she looks away. Again, I felt like I would blow it, but I approached anyway. I walk up to the girl who made eye contact and said “hi”. I introduced myself to her and her friends and we talked for a little until she became completely non-responsive and said “I’m so high right now”. I laughed and back turned her because I legitimately fail at plowing under the influence, it’s kind of sad but at least I know my SP’s vary based on states of consciousness.
Some time goes by and I go upstairs because new people are arriving again. I spot SM and give her a hug. We get into a conversation about her fight with YP and I tell her that if he asks I think she’s a man eating bitch. It creates a sexual tension barrier between us that I know will make things flirty for the night. She introduces me to some cute friends of hers, strolling me in on my arm. I talk to the group and all of them begin to ask questions about me, and I am finally in state. It took three failed sets but it happened, even under the influence. I didn’t think it was possible. The problem is that my state is situational, it needs to be from within. I still have inner game issues to work on.
Anyway, I leave SM’s set to give YP some consolation. I tell him she’s the devil, he happens to be in a mixed 6 set, with 3 girls (an HB4, and two HB9’s). I begin to talk to the set as a whole and they are loving me. We talk about the usual shit, then I notice the cuter HB9 is giving me shit tests. I look at her and roll my eyes then continue talking to one of the guys. Reds walked out of the house behind me and I gave her a hug for pre-selection. Then I negged the target in group for making a loud pointless comment and her group laughed. After that she started giving me IOI’s like a free candy. She was asking me where I was from, who I was, and the typical boring stuff. I ignored half her questions to talk to the group, then I told her I was Russian and she kept saying Russian phrases to try to get my attention. When she said I love you I looked and said aww. I asked her for her name which I now forgot and was about to sit next to her and ask her a small qualification hoop question when she had to go…
Didn’t really get to take that interaction anywhere but before she left I called her a dork and she responded with “that’s rude” smiling. I rolled my eyes once again and her set along with SM and the rest of the girls left. Interesting night.
SP / Thoughts:
1) Negging works like a fucking charm, I tease normally, but her interest here spiked so fast it was ridiculous
2) I need to have a sold structure to my game. Winging it doesn’t really get me the results I want
3) Struggling with inner game issues
4) Need to learn how to AI wings better
5) Stop ejecting out of set when things are going fine
6) Gaming high makes me have to relearn the basics, I should try to stay sober or tips
FR: Natick
Logistics:
Friday, January 15th 2010
Location: Natick Mall
Wings: Tallz, KingMelon
Report:
We arrive at the Natick mall around 4, looking for some sets to day game. I have been making a conscious effort recently to be more direct, because I saw how it helps game a lot and propels thins right into qualification. We beging to look around.
I spot a set walking towards me and Tallz with a HB8+ and her Ugg friend. I open them with “who lies more”. The stop and we begin transitioning, DHVing etc. the set is going pretty well and at one point we hit the hook point, they were contributing.
Mini-Cold read – You look like the good one (to target) and you’re the bad one UGG.
Best Friends test with TD’s addition. Had them giggling
After this, the body language we had (facing them leaning against the wall) was to out of the ordinary to continue. We stalled out of the convo and ended up losing the set.
We continued to roll around the mall and I make eye contact with a gorgeous two-set. They were seated together on one chair so it wasn’t optimal, but I decided to open anyway. I went direct since they were very cute and I wanted to try it.
I open them with “hey I know this is totally random, but you guys are really cute and I would’ve kicked myself if I didn’t come up to talk to you”. It worked like a charm and they were laughing from the beginning. One said “my name is Marina”. I was like “my mom’s name is Marina… AWKWARD”. They giggled then we got into a normal conversation with Tallz. Turns out they were from my town and one of them dated a friend of mine. Kind of random but it helped with rapport a lot.
Also I am starting to see that hot girls can practically get whatever they want in this world. They were extremely hot girls, I’d say HB9 and an HB9.5. They were at the mall that day because one of the girls got texting taken away, and her friend (orbiter) who was working there was putting it back on her phone for free. WTF? Lol. I couldn’t really escalate, I built attraction but wasn’t able to timebridge before they left. So me and Tallz settled on connecting with them on FB.
I ran another set that blew open, it was easy and I had to go so I didn’t really take it anywhere. I opened with “what should I get for my thirteen year old niece’s birthday?” They hooked/loved it. Good day overall.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Need to come up with something to alter BL position
2) Maybe need more material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct Game wrecks
Friday, January 15th 2010
Location: Natick Mall
Wings: Tallz, KingMelon
Report:
We arrive at the Natick mall around 4, looking for some sets to day game. I have been making a conscious effort recently to be more direct, because I saw how it helps game a lot and propels thins right into qualification. We beging to look around.
I spot a set walking towards me and Tallz with a HB8+ and her Ugg friend. I open them with “who lies more”. The stop and we begin transitioning, DHVing etc. the set is going pretty well and at one point we hit the hook point, they were contributing.
Mini-Cold read – You look like the good one (to target) and you’re the bad one UGG.
Best Friends test with TD’s addition. Had them giggling
After this, the body language we had (facing them leaning against the wall) was to out of the ordinary to continue. We stalled out of the convo and ended up losing the set.
We continued to roll around the mall and I make eye contact with a gorgeous two-set. They were seated together on one chair so it wasn’t optimal, but I decided to open anyway. I went direct since they were very cute and I wanted to try it.
I open them with “hey I know this is totally random, but you guys are really cute and I would’ve kicked myself if I didn’t come up to talk to you”. It worked like a charm and they were laughing from the beginning. One said “my name is Marina”. I was like “my mom’s name is Marina… AWKWARD”. They giggled then we got into a normal conversation with Tallz. Turns out they were from my town and one of them dated a friend of mine. Kind of random but it helped with rapport a lot.
Also I am starting to see that hot girls can practically get whatever they want in this world. They were extremely hot girls, I’d say HB9 and an HB9.5. They were at the mall that day because one of the girls got texting taken away, and her friend (orbiter) who was working there was putting it back on her phone for free. WTF? Lol. I couldn’t really escalate, I built attraction but wasn’t able to timebridge before they left. So me and Tallz settled on connecting with them on FB.
I ran another set that blew open, it was easy and I had to go so I didn’t really take it anywhere. I opened with “what should I get for my thirteen year old niece’s birthday?” They hooked/loved it. Good day overall.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Need to come up with something to alter BL position
2) Maybe need more material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct Game wrecks
Monday, January 11, 2010
FR: Under the Sea
Logistics:
Saturday January 9th, 2010.
Location: Aquarium, Party
Friends: KingMelon, YP
Report:
The day started out when I went to my wing KingMelon’s house to chill out and see where the day took us. We had been discussing game over the past week and I was fuming to get some in field experience. We head to the aquarium to chill and see if we could maybe even run game. We start walking around and just enjoying our surroundings. The fish were trippy and chodey, and KingMelon and I were having a great time not thinking about game. The aquarium was designed so there was a tank in the middle with a spiraling rail that brought people to the top. We made our way up enjoying ourselves, but I was keeping my eye out for possible sets. We reach the top of the spiral and I see a potential set to the left to us, it was a mixed set with three girls and a guy. I finally gathered the courage to get next to them and was thinking of an opener when they left. Missed opportunity.
We started to make our way down the spiral, and I told KingMelon that there was no excuse for not opening and that I would open the next possible set. I look right and on our way down I spot a two set looking into the tank. I almost pass them, then stop myself. “A hundred reasons not to do it, only one good reason to open” Rings in my ears. I open them with, “what do you guys think about the use of the word chode as an adjective?” while body rocking out. It doesn’t instantly hook but I plow forward, talking about how KingMelon and I have been on a quest to find the biggest chode in the aquarium. It hooks.
The set consist of an HB5 and an HB8, and since the HB5 (HBHeadache) was more open to conversing in the beginning, I start a conversation with her. (STICKING POINT). A girl I knew from school, walks by and I gave her a hug. Her pre-selection is all I need to have this set completely in the bag. The set shows us the tank that has Nemo in it and I get into A3/C1 with HBHeadache. At this point I don’t want anything physical with her, and I was running gateway game on her, essentially using her for resources that may help me in the future (LJBFing). I tell her about my attitude towards drugs and the world, and how I am passionate about evolutionary biology. I was just vibing pretty well and giving her insight into my life. After a little I decide to try to bounce to get some food.
I tell KingMelon that I’m hungry, and look at the girls and say “we’re getting food around here”, complete ambivalence and non-reactivity to them made them want to join us, so they put on their warm clothes and we exited. Our first in field bounce! Lol yes I am still a noob. We venture forth to Panera bread and sit with the girls when KingMelon gets a call from his parents, we had to leave. The girls number close us and I txt HBHeadache that she seemed chill, bc she has lots of weed and wants to smoke it with me. There’s no harm in making friends with a college girl.
Later in the night we get in contact with our friend YP, and he tells us about a party and the address. We head over and reluctantly realize it is a party where we know almost everyone… KingMelon and I were a little stressed about gaming in a situation where it could and would be traced back to us, but we figured we’d take a couple shots and loosen up. It worked for me, but KingMelon ended up getting trashed because of social anxiety. Understandable, but I told him I would cut him off next time so he wouldn’t miss another gaming opportunity.
Anyway, my night went like this. After the shots I start scoping out the dance floor for people I know or sets. I see some acquaintances on the left side, three friends of a good female friend of mine. I barely know them but decide to talk to them to get socially warmed up. After we talk I back off and start to circle the dance floor. I see another acquaintance, and we talk about how awesome it is to be at a party where everyone is younger than us. I then spot someone from school that I met in the center of our town earlier that year, HBTango. We vibed when I met her and she friended me on facebook, so I figured it was on and we started to dance. Halfway through I told her I wanted to slow dance (one of Brad P’s suggestions), and we are slow dancing surrounded by a sea of hectic drunk partygoers. I get blown out when a friend she knows starts to dance with her, so I go back to talk to YP and KingMelon, just to get my state in order.
From what my memory can piece together, KingMelon and I wander into the dance floor, my buzz is kicking in and I don’t really give a fuck about what anyone is thinking, so I start rapping and getting into the music. I somehow drift into a set with two girls wearing matching hats, and a blatantly drunk one keeps falling on me but pulling herself away right after she hits me. It was kind of sleazy and unappealing.
A relatively cute girl starts walking by me and I give her eye contact, when she is receptive I open with a simple warm introduction. At a party just introducing yourself is the hook point. I tell her my name is Raze, and then ask her if she knows how to dance. She says yes and we start grinding pretty hard. Things are going well and I am enjoying it until a drunk girl with braces walks up from behind me and pushes the girl I am dancing away to get on me. She wasn’t ugly but she wasn’t attractive at all, and she just lost me a kind of cute girl so I was not feeling it. As soon as the song ended I threw her ass off me and walked left where there was another set of girls I’d never seen before dancing.
I do the same thing, introduce myself and ask an Asian cutie if she knows how to dance. We start to grind and after the song ends her obstacle friend walks up pulls her away and says they are both lesbians. Again this bullshit happens and this time I come straight with the “I love lesbians” comeback and they are hooked for another 30 seconds. Next time I’ll just plow through to best friends test maybe. After the hook I threw a neg at the Asian, telling her she was probably the butch one. I didn’t really know how to follow up with this and they left.
I walk back to the left side of the room and spot a four set of girls on the dance floor that I hadn’t met. I approached and don’t really remember what I said, I think I was just trying to establish commonalities, one of the girls was on the ski team with my friend, but after I tried to continue she just got distracted and went to talk to her friends. What an unfortunate string of distracting blowouts.
I regroup with KingMelon and YP who are slowly becoming considerably drunk. KingMelon is telling me about how he’s running strong guy gateway game and I can tell he’s getting pretty smashed. What can I do? We walk outside for a second and a tiny girl walks out who has been covering her mouth with her hands all night. YP at this point is so wasted that he’s just calling every girl Jenny and KingMelon and I are cracking up. He calls the short girl Jenny and I approach her about her mouth covering. I wanted to know if something was on her mind because that’s what my body language book said. She said she wasn’t really thinking about anything, but I somehow hooked anyway, and found out her name was HBSmall. Then I told her I’d see her inside.
I walked in and saw this girl HBMassage who I met at a concert. I ran solid game on her every time I saw her in school so she gave me a hug that literally knocked me backwards onto the couch. I like being a challenge with her so I threw her ass off me and walked off, glistening in the pre-selection she gave me. Then I see HBSmall sitting on the couch and I sit next to her and ask her why she’s being boring at a party and sitting on the couch. I grab her hand and pull her to the dance floor where we start to grind. It was going pretty well, I like how she danced. It was all fun until her friend came and told her about some drama that was happening with one of her friends. I told her if she had to go help her out she could (non-needy/social intuition spike). She said “she brings it upon herself”, and we kept dancing for a bit.
Then she got distracted by her friend who was on the other side of the room, she grabbed my hand and ran up to talk to her and politely introduced me. We got into a conversation about her bf and then HBSmall started to dance with her. I didn’t want to be that creepy guy grinding on a girl trying to chill with her friend so I rolled off to preserve value. Maybe I should’ve number closed or something because I didn’t see her for the rest of the night. (fuck!) But I’ll see her in school and maybe I could take it somewhere later.
I start to walk back when HBMassage corners me, we dance fucking hard, I like dancing with her because she is Columbian and knows what she’s doing. But I make it kind of clear by running away that I’m not going to hook up with her. I may have offended her after I legit ran away because she didn’t reinitiate for the rest of the night but w/e.
I meet back up with KingMelon and YP and he is on a mad Jenny rampage. Everyone at the party at this point is Jenny and there are no exceptions. Girls find it amusing but it starts to get old when some back turn us and I try to get him to take it easy. I see 3 other South seniors walk into the party whom I know kind of. One I had a crush on in middle school so it’s always been kind of awkward. Another one is HBSmoking, a solid ten who I had never talked to but was stunningly beautiful. She legitimately reduced me back to a chode who couldn’t talk to girls the second I saw her (BIG FUCKING STICKING POINT).
At this point I decide to try and switch up my game a little to try exclusively chick crack. A girl walks by me and I tease/ push-pull the shit out of her. Her eyes light up with confused excitement as she looks up at me. I am saying shit like “bitch I love you” and she is just like omg who is this guy. I overdo it though and burned her out, good experience, from now on I’ll do it in moderation.
Later I try to approach HBSmoking who is in set with three other girls. I ask to borrow her for two seconds which came off as creepy the way I did it, not confident. Balls. Then I completely forgot about a game plan and choded myself out. I looked into her eyes and just couldn’t think of anything to say except “I think you’re really chill, I don’t do this often” WOWWWWW. It’s amazing how a ten can make you go back to being a typical fucking AFC in seconds. She said it was nice meeting me and ejected. I would’ve laughed at myself and walked away, at least she’s polite.
The party ended and we walked out. I was going to drive KingMelon home because he was not in the condition to drive. YP sat in our car and told us to wait for his friend to show up, she was his ride. She comes and I notice that she is in a car being driven by a cute girl. I pop the fuck out and lean in the window and begin gaming. She tells me her name is HBSarcastic. She is challenging as fuck which is a huge turn on. I do well and she parks in front of us. Then she gets out of her car and I give her a big hug when she walks up. I conveyed wayyyyy too much interest. So after a little conversation she goes and sits in her car. I decide to be ballsy and run up to her window and knock. I say that she is a dick who makes no sense and I want her number because I like mean girls. She puts her number in my phone. But there was no time bridge or comfort, just push pull attraction, so I don’t think it’s really going to go anywhere. I drove KingMelon home and tucked his ass in, then drove back home. I learned a lot from the night/day.
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) I need to approach and talk to more 10 girls. They are the only reason why I’m gaming and I can’t even talk to them at this point.
2) I need to be able to overcome the instant cock-block, next time I’ll try to plow immediately after hooking.
3) Integrate Chick Crack into game in a way where I can use it in spurts to get attraction.
4) How can I get a girl willing to meet up with me in a very short time span?
5) Come up with a way to indicate targets with KingMelon.
Saturday January 9th, 2010.
Location: Aquarium, Party
Friends: KingMelon, YP
Report:
The day started out when I went to my wing KingMelon’s house to chill out and see where the day took us. We had been discussing game over the past week and I was fuming to get some in field experience. We head to the aquarium to chill and see if we could maybe even run game. We start walking around and just enjoying our surroundings. The fish were trippy and chodey, and KingMelon and I were having a great time not thinking about game. The aquarium was designed so there was a tank in the middle with a spiraling rail that brought people to the top. We made our way up enjoying ourselves, but I was keeping my eye out for possible sets. We reach the top of the spiral and I see a potential set to the left to us, it was a mixed set with three girls and a guy. I finally gathered the courage to get next to them and was thinking of an opener when they left. Missed opportunity.
We started to make our way down the spiral, and I told KingMelon that there was no excuse for not opening and that I would open the next possible set. I look right and on our way down I spot a two set looking into the tank. I almost pass them, then stop myself. “A hundred reasons not to do it, only one good reason to open” Rings in my ears. I open them with, “what do you guys think about the use of the word chode as an adjective?” while body rocking out. It doesn’t instantly hook but I plow forward, talking about how KingMelon and I have been on a quest to find the biggest chode in the aquarium. It hooks.
The set consist of an HB5 and an HB8, and since the HB5 (HBHeadache) was more open to conversing in the beginning, I start a conversation with her. (STICKING POINT). A girl I knew from school, walks by and I gave her a hug. Her pre-selection is all I need to have this set completely in the bag. The set shows us the tank that has Nemo in it and I get into A3/C1 with HBHeadache. At this point I don’t want anything physical with her, and I was running gateway game on her, essentially using her for resources that may help me in the future (LJBFing). I tell her about my attitude towards drugs and the world, and how I am passionate about evolutionary biology. I was just vibing pretty well and giving her insight into my life. After a little I decide to try to bounce to get some food.
I tell KingMelon that I’m hungry, and look at the girls and say “we’re getting food around here”, complete ambivalence and non-reactivity to them made them want to join us, so they put on their warm clothes and we exited. Our first in field bounce! Lol yes I am still a noob. We venture forth to Panera bread and sit with the girls when KingMelon gets a call from his parents, we had to leave. The girls number close us and I txt HBHeadache that she seemed chill, bc she has lots of weed and wants to smoke it with me. There’s no harm in making friends with a college girl.
Later in the night we get in contact with our friend YP, and he tells us about a party and the address. We head over and reluctantly realize it is a party where we know almost everyone… KingMelon and I were a little stressed about gaming in a situation where it could and would be traced back to us, but we figured we’d take a couple shots and loosen up. It worked for me, but KingMelon ended up getting trashed because of social anxiety. Understandable, but I told him I would cut him off next time so he wouldn’t miss another gaming opportunity.
Anyway, my night went like this. After the shots I start scoping out the dance floor for people I know or sets. I see some acquaintances on the left side, three friends of a good female friend of mine. I barely know them but decide to talk to them to get socially warmed up. After we talk I back off and start to circle the dance floor. I see another acquaintance, and we talk about how awesome it is to be at a party where everyone is younger than us. I then spot someone from school that I met in the center of our town earlier that year, HBTango. We vibed when I met her and she friended me on facebook, so I figured it was on and we started to dance. Halfway through I told her I wanted to slow dance (one of Brad P’s suggestions), and we are slow dancing surrounded by a sea of hectic drunk partygoers. I get blown out when a friend she knows starts to dance with her, so I go back to talk to YP and KingMelon, just to get my state in order.
From what my memory can piece together, KingMelon and I wander into the dance floor, my buzz is kicking in and I don’t really give a fuck about what anyone is thinking, so I start rapping and getting into the music. I somehow drift into a set with two girls wearing matching hats, and a blatantly drunk one keeps falling on me but pulling herself away right after she hits me. It was kind of sleazy and unappealing.
A relatively cute girl starts walking by me and I give her eye contact, when she is receptive I open with a simple warm introduction. At a party just introducing yourself is the hook point. I tell her my name is Raze, and then ask her if she knows how to dance. She says yes and we start grinding pretty hard. Things are going well and I am enjoying it until a drunk girl with braces walks up from behind me and pushes the girl I am dancing away to get on me. She wasn’t ugly but she wasn’t attractive at all, and she just lost me a kind of cute girl so I was not feeling it. As soon as the song ended I threw her ass off me and walked left where there was another set of girls I’d never seen before dancing.
I do the same thing, introduce myself and ask an Asian cutie if she knows how to dance. We start to grind and after the song ends her obstacle friend walks up pulls her away and says they are both lesbians. Again this bullshit happens and this time I come straight with the “I love lesbians” comeback and they are hooked for another 30 seconds. Next time I’ll just plow through to best friends test maybe. After the hook I threw a neg at the Asian, telling her she was probably the butch one. I didn’t really know how to follow up with this and they left.
I walk back to the left side of the room and spot a four set of girls on the dance floor that I hadn’t met. I approached and don’t really remember what I said, I think I was just trying to establish commonalities, one of the girls was on the ski team with my friend, but after I tried to continue she just got distracted and went to talk to her friends. What an unfortunate string of distracting blowouts.
I regroup with KingMelon and YP who are slowly becoming considerably drunk. KingMelon is telling me about how he’s running strong guy gateway game and I can tell he’s getting pretty smashed. What can I do? We walk outside for a second and a tiny girl walks out who has been covering her mouth with her hands all night. YP at this point is so wasted that he’s just calling every girl Jenny and KingMelon and I are cracking up. He calls the short girl Jenny and I approach her about her mouth covering. I wanted to know if something was on her mind because that’s what my body language book said. She said she wasn’t really thinking about anything, but I somehow hooked anyway, and found out her name was HBSmall. Then I told her I’d see her inside.
I walked in and saw this girl HBMassage who I met at a concert. I ran solid game on her every time I saw her in school so she gave me a hug that literally knocked me backwards onto the couch. I like being a challenge with her so I threw her ass off me and walked off, glistening in the pre-selection she gave me. Then I see HBSmall sitting on the couch and I sit next to her and ask her why she’s being boring at a party and sitting on the couch. I grab her hand and pull her to the dance floor where we start to grind. It was going pretty well, I like how she danced. It was all fun until her friend came and told her about some drama that was happening with one of her friends. I told her if she had to go help her out she could (non-needy/social intuition spike). She said “she brings it upon herself”, and we kept dancing for a bit.
Then she got distracted by her friend who was on the other side of the room, she grabbed my hand and ran up to talk to her and politely introduced me. We got into a conversation about her bf and then HBSmall started to dance with her. I didn’t want to be that creepy guy grinding on a girl trying to chill with her friend so I rolled off to preserve value. Maybe I should’ve number closed or something because I didn’t see her for the rest of the night. (fuck!) But I’ll see her in school and maybe I could take it somewhere later.
I start to walk back when HBMassage corners me, we dance fucking hard, I like dancing with her because she is Columbian and knows what she’s doing. But I make it kind of clear by running away that I’m not going to hook up with her. I may have offended her after I legit ran away because she didn’t reinitiate for the rest of the night but w/e.
I meet back up with KingMelon and YP and he is on a mad Jenny rampage. Everyone at the party at this point is Jenny and there are no exceptions. Girls find it amusing but it starts to get old when some back turn us and I try to get him to take it easy. I see 3 other South seniors walk into the party whom I know kind of. One I had a crush on in middle school so it’s always been kind of awkward. Another one is HBSmoking, a solid ten who I had never talked to but was stunningly beautiful. She legitimately reduced me back to a chode who couldn’t talk to girls the second I saw her (BIG FUCKING STICKING POINT).
At this point I decide to try and switch up my game a little to try exclusively chick crack. A girl walks by me and I tease/ push-pull the shit out of her. Her eyes light up with confused excitement as she looks up at me. I am saying shit like “bitch I love you” and she is just like omg who is this guy. I overdo it though and burned her out, good experience, from now on I’ll do it in moderation.
Later I try to approach HBSmoking who is in set with three other girls. I ask to borrow her for two seconds which came off as creepy the way I did it, not confident. Balls. Then I completely forgot about a game plan and choded myself out. I looked into her eyes and just couldn’t think of anything to say except “I think you’re really chill, I don’t do this often” WOWWWWW. It’s amazing how a ten can make you go back to being a typical fucking AFC in seconds. She said it was nice meeting me and ejected. I would’ve laughed at myself and walked away, at least she’s polite.
The party ended and we walked out. I was going to drive KingMelon home because he was not in the condition to drive. YP sat in our car and told us to wait for his friend to show up, she was his ride. She comes and I notice that she is in a car being driven by a cute girl. I pop the fuck out and lean in the window and begin gaming. She tells me her name is HBSarcastic. She is challenging as fuck which is a huge turn on. I do well and she parks in front of us. Then she gets out of her car and I give her a big hug when she walks up. I conveyed wayyyyy too much interest. So after a little conversation she goes and sits in her car. I decide to be ballsy and run up to her window and knock. I say that she is a dick who makes no sense and I want her number because I like mean girls. She puts her number in my phone. But there was no time bridge or comfort, just push pull attraction, so I don’t think it’s really going to go anywhere. I drove KingMelon home and tucked his ass in, then drove back home. I learned a lot from the night/day.
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) I need to approach and talk to more 10 girls. They are the only reason why I’m gaming and I can’t even talk to them at this point.
2) I need to be able to overcome the instant cock-block, next time I’ll try to plow immediately after hooking.
3) Integrate Chick Crack into game in a way where I can use it in spurts to get attraction.
4) How can I get a girl willing to meet up with me in a very short time span?
5) Come up with a way to indicate targets with KingMelon.
Field Report 2
Logistics:
Saturday January 3rd, 2010.
Location: Brookline Party
Friends: JP, YP, SM
Report:
I walk into the party with my friends, still wearing snow pants. We had been sledding and I was all wet but I had my fly orange jacket on under a shell so I felt fashionable. Immediately a crowd of girls gathers in front of the entrance to examine the strangers. YP knew Tatiana there, she introduced herself to us. The girls were all asking us what our names were. Walking into a party with YP seems to convey instant attraction. I remained leaned back and girls had to rock in to get my name. I told half of them it was Tyrone or made up a sassy sounding female black name like Shatricia.
I get into a conversation with Tatiana to feel out the situation. We talk and my friend JP begins raving about the mystery liquid in the kitchen. I join him. Two of the girls I introduced myself to walk in. As I talk to SM and lightly tease her, I notice JP is locked in against the counter with two girls. One was an HB7 who gave me a positive response earlier. I lock myself in with them and we begin to talk. We start to talk about scientific subjects, idk that’s what I am fascinated with right now. Like biology and evolution, how things came to be. SM leaves and gives me time to isolate and build solid rapport with her. Soon she comes back, making fun of us for having an intelligent conversation. Then she brings up philosophy, and we talk about that for a while. I tell SM loudly that intelligence is a turn on and I am tired of all the empty headed Newton girls. The HB7 is getting more physical and she asks me if I want to go sit with her on the couch. Her friend tells her that I am a good catch and she should go for it. Lol.
I sit on an armchair with her on my lap. We are vibing as things start to become more physical. She’s pressing her body against me and getting closer to my face with hers, we were in each others intimate zones. I tell her that I hate guys who can’t take control, and have no idea what is going on. She is eating up my speech that’s hitting her leader of men/social intuition switch. Unfortunately, all of our friends were staring at us from the hallway, and I decided to get her off me to avoid awkwardness, we also had to leave. I could have easily hooked up with her, it was just logistically wrong, and I didn’t feel like it was necessary (abundance kicking in).
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) Why am I instantly attractive when I walk through the door of these parties? What am I doing right?
2) Can you talk about logical subjects and have it go somewhere? That may have just been lucky, it would’ve been better to be playful.
3) Locking in has such a profound effect on the set, I need to remember this for the future.
Saturday January 3rd, 2010.
Location: Brookline Party
Friends: JP, YP, SM
Report:
I walk into the party with my friends, still wearing snow pants. We had been sledding and I was all wet but I had my fly orange jacket on under a shell so I felt fashionable. Immediately a crowd of girls gathers in front of the entrance to examine the strangers. YP knew Tatiana there, she introduced herself to us. The girls were all asking us what our names were. Walking into a party with YP seems to convey instant attraction. I remained leaned back and girls had to rock in to get my name. I told half of them it was Tyrone or made up a sassy sounding female black name like Shatricia.
I get into a conversation with Tatiana to feel out the situation. We talk and my friend JP begins raving about the mystery liquid in the kitchen. I join him. Two of the girls I introduced myself to walk in. As I talk to SM and lightly tease her, I notice JP is locked in against the counter with two girls. One was an HB7 who gave me a positive response earlier. I lock myself in with them and we begin to talk. We start to talk about scientific subjects, idk that’s what I am fascinated with right now. Like biology and evolution, how things came to be. SM leaves and gives me time to isolate and build solid rapport with her. Soon she comes back, making fun of us for having an intelligent conversation. Then she brings up philosophy, and we talk about that for a while. I tell SM loudly that intelligence is a turn on and I am tired of all the empty headed Newton girls. The HB7 is getting more physical and she asks me if I want to go sit with her on the couch. Her friend tells her that I am a good catch and she should go for it. Lol.
I sit on an armchair with her on my lap. We are vibing as things start to become more physical. She’s pressing her body against me and getting closer to my face with hers, we were in each others intimate zones. I tell her that I hate guys who can’t take control, and have no idea what is going on. She is eating up my speech that’s hitting her leader of men/social intuition switch. Unfortunately, all of our friends were staring at us from the hallway, and I decided to get her off me to avoid awkwardness, we also had to leave. I could have easily hooked up with her, it was just logistically wrong, and I didn’t feel like it was necessary (abundance kicking in).
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) Why am I instantly attractive when I walk through the door of these parties? What am I doing right?
2) Can you talk about logical subjects and have it go somewhere? That may have just been lucky, it would’ve been better to be playful.
3) Locking in has such a profound effect on the set, I need to remember this for the future.
Field Report
Logistics:
Monday December 28th, 2009.
Locations: Club Tabu, Afterparty
Friends: KingMelon(Wing), RM, JP, YP, SM, JA
Girls I knew ahead of time: HBGreek, HBGirlTalk
Report:
I meet up with my wing KingMelon at his house around four, we hang out and discuss game and other things. We go out to meet up with JP and YP at six in our school's parking lot. We go to JA's house to pregame a little. I didn’t really have any, like one shot. I was sober but KingMelon drank a fair amount.
We head to Tabu and arrive around 8:15, and meet up with RM. He opened a three-set in line and I immediately locked in to talk with him and them. RM is a solid natural who has success without knowing what he's doing. He gave one of the girls his coat, she was an HB9 or 10 (Does chivalry help? On one hand you are conveying social intuition, but for you to suffer for her well being seems needy).
We get into the club, and I immediately open a set on my left with two guys and a girl, body rocking and looking like I won’t stay. I leave on a high note. Then I open a set directly next to them, just simple situational stuff. Again I left on a high note. I was experimenting with the “Celebrity Game” concept the Professional Pick Up Artist Legend told me about. Later I realized in a club with hundreds of people that becomes almost impossible to pull off. We go to the bathroom, leave and look for girls. I open a set to the right of me and her friend comes out of nowhere and tells me she is a lesbian. She pulls her away with me yelling “I love lesbians!” the girl I opened helplessly waves me goodbye.
We head around the dance floor, and I tap a girl on the shoulder in a five set. With RM and KingMelon following my lead. She says I “scared” her and jumps away. (How do I deal with this shit?) Anyway RM jumps in front of this blown open set and presumably asked a girl to dance. Still trying to recover with “scared” girl I look back and RM and KingMelon are both grinding on random girls in the set. I decide to move on because my wings are set and I can find my own.
I head around to the back where I see a three set waiting to be found. There was a 4 an 8 and a 9. I open over the shoulder with “who lies more men or women”, and it’s an instant hook, rooted with my buddies and I have been arguing about this. They were clearly bored and this was good enough for them to jump on. I start to transition to where they are from, and we know some people in common. Then RM and YP run into the set, excited because two were pretty hot. I accomplish intro my wings and RM and I get into a conversation with them. He talks to the 8 and the 9 while I occupy the 4. I decided to let him do his thing, naturals don't know they are stealing the target, but I wasn't to worried as I had the whole night ahead of me. He wanted to dance, and we headed to the dance floor following the girls. I grabbed the 8s hand because RM was with the other one and told her my name was Raze. She said hers was Esther and I told her it was old timey. HBGirlTalk walked by me mid-dance, and I threw Esther off to go give her a huge pre-selecting hug. She seemed out of it. Then Esther and I grinded for a couple songs.
We decided to go take a seat near the left side of the club with booths, and I sat next to Esther while the 9 sat on RM’s lap in an armchair. Esther and the obstacle decided to go get a drink, and since I wasn’t too invested yet I walked away, looking for another set or friends. I go find KingMelon chilling near the back and tell him we’re going to open a new set. Most of the girls were dancing, and though I knew I could walk up from behind, I wanted to exclusively practice real game, not just dance floor escalation. So I didn’t walk up from behind any dancing girls tonight.
We go near the left side where I was sitting with RM, and I spot a girl I vaguely know from my school there. Jen was there with her friend HB8. KingMelon and I approach and I take a seat next to Jen at first. Realizing I was blocking KingMelon off, I go around and sat next to HB8, so KingMelon and I could both isolate. We begin to talk and I assumed attraction because she was laughing at all my jokes. Even though she probably couldn’t have even heard them. I screened her, asking if she was into any sports. She answered something that fell into my frame. I pulled her up onto the glowing pedestal thing to dance. We ground for a couple of songs before the bouncer kicked us off. She went to talk to another guy when we got down, so I decided to leave to preserve value/ I didn’t really care because she wasn’t really up to my standards.
I wander around to the back and find RM again. We were circling the club when I see HBGreek, who I had already hooked up with, and she immediately starts hooking up with me, but says she needs to go to the bathroom. I was like ok no problem. She left.
Next thing I remember I was in the back again, I saw KingMelon perched up against the wall. I picked him up and pushed him around a little, screaming “Don’t be a CHODE!!” KingMelon says ok goes to look for girls on the dance floor. SM (a girl in our friends group) comes up from behind and asks me to dance, I tell her I don’t know, and that she should be hooking up with KingMelon. She eventually pulls me to the dance floor, where I see HBGirlTalk on my left. HBGirlTalk uses her might to yank me over and starts grinding the fuck out of my front. She was vicious. Her friends can’t handle seeing her like that and just walk away. This goes on for a while, until I rotate her to face me, and we start to get a little more intimate. She was visibly drunk but we kept dancing. The song ended and she said she was going to get back to her friends. I was like ok bye hun.
I go to the back area because I realized I was just looking for HBGreek, I am priming her to be an FB and not really in the mood to open new sets. I didn’t want to mess things up with her by having her see me hook up with another girl. I find Jen and HB8 in the back, and start having a conversation with them. The conversation gets to weed at some point and HB8 says that she blazes all the time. She wanted me to put her number in my phone so that I could call her. I told her I didn’t know her well enough, and ioi’s began pouring out of her lol. Disqualifying is extremely powerful. I genuinely didn’t want it though. So then I texted HBGreek to meet me, and she came while I was in a conversation with Jen. She sat right on my lap and started making out with me. Jealous much? Idk.
HBGreek dragged me to the dance floor. Her drunk obstacle friend is screaming about how much she wants dick. I try to be nice to her and tell her that I’m sure she’ll get some soon, but I wouldn’t make any of my wings dance with her, because I respect them too much. Things get intense immediately. We are hooking up and incredibly close to each other physically. We were pressed hard against one another. We make out for a while then she turns to grind. We are dancing like normal then she takes my hands off her waist and starts putting them all over her. On her breasts and up her thighs, I got pretty close to fingering her on the dance floor when she pushes my hand away. But we continuously transitioned between hooking up and me groping her for a while. Then she said she was too hot and wanted to sit down. We went to the seats near the back. We talked for a while when my friends told me we were bouncing to an afterparty. I gave HBGreek the address and we started to go. Finding people became somewhat of a hassle, but we left soon.
After some driving with SM's leg on me in the backseat we got to the party. The second we walk down people are all over us. It was in a small basement, and I hadn’t met any of the people there. The girls were all introducing themselves to me and shaking my hand, one was even touching my face until I swatted her away. She asked me to dance and I rejected her because she wasn’t hot enough, but props for trying. I spot a solid 10 at the party HBBraces and introduce myself. I screened her right after the opener, because I generally didn’t care what happened. I still thought HBGreek would come. The 10 starts grinding me and I don’t fight it. I’m making her laugh and cracking dumb jokes from behind her, but whatever it works. We got separated when she got distracted or something but I didn’t lose value by waiting for her.
I started talking to my wing KingMelon, we sat down on the couch together. I overheard some of the girls talking about how hot those guys were on the couch lol. A girl approached him asking him to dance. She sat down next to him and I let him do his thing with her. I saw a cute girl standing alone and we began to talk. We ground and YP walked up from behind and told me that she had a boyfriend. Which would have been annoying, except he was there, and 6 feet tall. I told her I wasn’t really thinking about hooking up with anyone right now and we continued dancing. I asked her if she had anything going for her other than her looks, and she replied “not really”. WTF? I probably would have guided qualification if I was trying to take it somewhere. I built up way to much value from turning girls down.
I start talking to SM about how much she loves black guys and the trippy disco ball in the center of the room. I see the ten looking at me when I turn around and I continued our conversation about whatever. I got the number and was walking away to leave when we found out we had a little more time. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit and we talked about heritage, she loved that I was Russian and I made fun of her friend who could only say “I’m not drunk” by calling her a liar. Then that party ended. Whatever, it was a sweet night overall. I had a lot of fun and gained great new experiences to apply to the future.
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) Can chivalry be used in a non-needy way?
2) How do I deal with shit tests that happen right after opening?
3) How much time should I devote to girls I already know?
4) How do you reject girls without looking like a dick?
Monday December 28th, 2009.
Locations: Club Tabu, Afterparty
Friends: KingMelon(Wing), RM, JP, YP, SM, JA
Girls I knew ahead of time: HBGreek, HBGirlTalk
Report:
I meet up with my wing KingMelon at his house around four, we hang out and discuss game and other things. We go out to meet up with JP and YP at six in our school's parking lot. We go to JA's house to pregame a little. I didn’t really have any, like one shot. I was sober but KingMelon drank a fair amount.
We head to Tabu and arrive around 8:15, and meet up with RM. He opened a three-set in line and I immediately locked in to talk with him and them. RM is a solid natural who has success without knowing what he's doing. He gave one of the girls his coat, she was an HB9 or 10 (Does chivalry help? On one hand you are conveying social intuition, but for you to suffer for her well being seems needy).
We get into the club, and I immediately open a set on my left with two guys and a girl, body rocking and looking like I won’t stay. I leave on a high note. Then I open a set directly next to them, just simple situational stuff. Again I left on a high note. I was experimenting with the “Celebrity Game” concept the Professional Pick Up Artist Legend told me about. Later I realized in a club with hundreds of people that becomes almost impossible to pull off. We go to the bathroom, leave and look for girls. I open a set to the right of me and her friend comes out of nowhere and tells me she is a lesbian. She pulls her away with me yelling “I love lesbians!” the girl I opened helplessly waves me goodbye.
We head around the dance floor, and I tap a girl on the shoulder in a five set. With RM and KingMelon following my lead. She says I “scared” her and jumps away. (How do I deal with this shit?) Anyway RM jumps in front of this blown open set and presumably asked a girl to dance. Still trying to recover with “scared” girl I look back and RM and KingMelon are both grinding on random girls in the set. I decide to move on because my wings are set and I can find my own.
I head around to the back where I see a three set waiting to be found. There was a 4 an 8 and a 9. I open over the shoulder with “who lies more men or women”, and it’s an instant hook, rooted with my buddies and I have been arguing about this. They were clearly bored and this was good enough for them to jump on. I start to transition to where they are from, and we know some people in common. Then RM and YP run into the set, excited because two were pretty hot. I accomplish intro my wings and RM and I get into a conversation with them. He talks to the 8 and the 9 while I occupy the 4. I decided to let him do his thing, naturals don't know they are stealing the target, but I wasn't to worried as I had the whole night ahead of me. He wanted to dance, and we headed to the dance floor following the girls. I grabbed the 8s hand because RM was with the other one and told her my name was Raze. She said hers was Esther and I told her it was old timey. HBGirlTalk walked by me mid-dance, and I threw Esther off to go give her a huge pre-selecting hug. She seemed out of it. Then Esther and I grinded for a couple songs.
We decided to go take a seat near the left side of the club with booths, and I sat next to Esther while the 9 sat on RM’s lap in an armchair. Esther and the obstacle decided to go get a drink, and since I wasn’t too invested yet I walked away, looking for another set or friends. I go find KingMelon chilling near the back and tell him we’re going to open a new set. Most of the girls were dancing, and though I knew I could walk up from behind, I wanted to exclusively practice real game, not just dance floor escalation. So I didn’t walk up from behind any dancing girls tonight.
We go near the left side where I was sitting with RM, and I spot a girl I vaguely know from my school there. Jen was there with her friend HB8. KingMelon and I approach and I take a seat next to Jen at first. Realizing I was blocking KingMelon off, I go around and sat next to HB8, so KingMelon and I could both isolate. We begin to talk and I assumed attraction because she was laughing at all my jokes. Even though she probably couldn’t have even heard them. I screened her, asking if she was into any sports. She answered something that fell into my frame. I pulled her up onto the glowing pedestal thing to dance. We ground for a couple of songs before the bouncer kicked us off. She went to talk to another guy when we got down, so I decided to leave to preserve value/ I didn’t really care because she wasn’t really up to my standards.
I wander around to the back and find RM again. We were circling the club when I see HBGreek, who I had already hooked up with, and she immediately starts hooking up with me, but says she needs to go to the bathroom. I was like ok no problem. She left.
Next thing I remember I was in the back again, I saw KingMelon perched up against the wall. I picked him up and pushed him around a little, screaming “Don’t be a CHODE!!” KingMelon says ok goes to look for girls on the dance floor. SM (a girl in our friends group) comes up from behind and asks me to dance, I tell her I don’t know, and that she should be hooking up with KingMelon. She eventually pulls me to the dance floor, where I see HBGirlTalk on my left. HBGirlTalk uses her might to yank me over and starts grinding the fuck out of my front. She was vicious. Her friends can’t handle seeing her like that and just walk away. This goes on for a while, until I rotate her to face me, and we start to get a little more intimate. She was visibly drunk but we kept dancing. The song ended and she said she was going to get back to her friends. I was like ok bye hun.
I go to the back area because I realized I was just looking for HBGreek, I am priming her to be an FB and not really in the mood to open new sets. I didn’t want to mess things up with her by having her see me hook up with another girl. I find Jen and HB8 in the back, and start having a conversation with them. The conversation gets to weed at some point and HB8 says that she blazes all the time. She wanted me to put her number in my phone so that I could call her. I told her I didn’t know her well enough, and ioi’s began pouring out of her lol. Disqualifying is extremely powerful. I genuinely didn’t want it though. So then I texted HBGreek to meet me, and she came while I was in a conversation with Jen. She sat right on my lap and started making out with me. Jealous much? Idk.
HBGreek dragged me to the dance floor. Her drunk obstacle friend is screaming about how much she wants dick. I try to be nice to her and tell her that I’m sure she’ll get some soon, but I wouldn’t make any of my wings dance with her, because I respect them too much. Things get intense immediately. We are hooking up and incredibly close to each other physically. We were pressed hard against one another. We make out for a while then she turns to grind. We are dancing like normal then she takes my hands off her waist and starts putting them all over her. On her breasts and up her thighs, I got pretty close to fingering her on the dance floor when she pushes my hand away. But we continuously transitioned between hooking up and me groping her for a while. Then she said she was too hot and wanted to sit down. We went to the seats near the back. We talked for a while when my friends told me we were bouncing to an afterparty. I gave HBGreek the address and we started to go. Finding people became somewhat of a hassle, but we left soon.
After some driving with SM's leg on me in the backseat we got to the party. The second we walk down people are all over us. It was in a small basement, and I hadn’t met any of the people there. The girls were all introducing themselves to me and shaking my hand, one was even touching my face until I swatted her away. She asked me to dance and I rejected her because she wasn’t hot enough, but props for trying. I spot a solid 10 at the party HBBraces and introduce myself. I screened her right after the opener, because I generally didn’t care what happened. I still thought HBGreek would come. The 10 starts grinding me and I don’t fight it. I’m making her laugh and cracking dumb jokes from behind her, but whatever it works. We got separated when she got distracted or something but I didn’t lose value by waiting for her.
I started talking to my wing KingMelon, we sat down on the couch together. I overheard some of the girls talking about how hot those guys were on the couch lol. A girl approached him asking him to dance. She sat down next to him and I let him do his thing with her. I saw a cute girl standing alone and we began to talk. We ground and YP walked up from behind and told me that she had a boyfriend. Which would have been annoying, except he was there, and 6 feet tall. I told her I wasn’t really thinking about hooking up with anyone right now and we continued dancing. I asked her if she had anything going for her other than her looks, and she replied “not really”. WTF? I probably would have guided qualification if I was trying to take it somewhere. I built up way to much value from turning girls down.
I start talking to SM about how much she loves black guys and the trippy disco ball in the center of the room. I see the ten looking at me when I turn around and I continued our conversation about whatever. I got the number and was walking away to leave when we found out we had a little more time. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit and we talked about heritage, she loved that I was Russian and I made fun of her friend who could only say “I’m not drunk” by calling her a liar. Then that party ended. Whatever, it was a sweet night overall. I had a lot of fun and gained great new experiences to apply to the future.
Sticking Points / Questions:
1) Can chivalry be used in a non-needy way?
2) How do I deal with shit tests that happen right after opening?
3) How much time should I devote to girls I already know?
4) How do you reject girls without looking like a dick?
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