Logistics:
Saturday January 23rd, 2010.
Locations: Frat Party1, Frat Party2
Wings: KingMelons, Flow, Legend, Edge
Pivot: BW
Report:
KingMelons and I got dropped off by a friend to meet up with Flow. After some discussion and text persuasion we decide to be at Frat1 at 11. At first BW was resilient to coming. She didn’t have a ride and she said the world was a scary place lol. I said ok. After 20 minutes I texted her that if she wasn’t coming I would cheat on her with NBC figure skaters. She caved and said shed meet us at Frat1. We begin making our way to the frat and do a couple warm up sets at the store. I decide to use “who lies more”, my standard opinion opener because I have it worked out. Hooks, it pumps my state a little, we head to Frat1.
We meet up with Legend and Edge at the door outside Frat1. Legend has written books on how to get into any party, and he managed to get both of the doormen to vouch for him lol. Being a supposed mpua comes with some fascinating knowledge. He even gets the doorman to vouch for all of us and they let us in the Frat after a short wait.
I wander around and open my first set of the night. It was a two-set containing a cute girl and her swamp monster of a friend. I approach with my standard direct group opener, “you guys seem cool blah” and it hooks. We get into a conversation when Flow comes in. Since the one girl was really cute, about a 9, he was into the set. We talked and things were going kind of well, but we stayed on a neg (you look like you’re from Kansas) for too long and the set was beginning to stall out. I got a call from BW anyway and went to meet her at the front.
She couldn’t get in at first, so I go back upstairs and meet up with Kingmelons and Legend. I see a four set and tried Sinn’s facebook opener. After I teased for accepting me to easily, a 7 in the set said something like “I didn’t hear you so I just said yes”. Either way it didn’t matter because a fucking AMOG stumbled in to blow my ass out. He imitated me and said “I’m using cheesy pickup lines blah blah”. Anyway I lost the set, I got into a battle with him and I think he won. I was trying to win by exaggerating frame (I asked him if he was a broom because he swept me off my feet), but the girls walked away mid battle so it didn’t matter lol.
BW got into the party somehow and met up with me. We were flirting as soon as she got there and she was all over me. I still wanted to run more game though so I ditched her after some light kino escalation.
Flow and I hooked more sets easily near where the beer funnel was, direct group openers tore up any transitioning period I would have to worry about. We ended up in an ok set and we wanted to leave so it didn’t really matter to us. BW kept finding me and grabbing my arm, trying to get my attention and stuff throughout the night. I used her to open an OK four set that went well. They left to dance and wanted her to go but she stayed with me. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit. Her friends came and Flow and I went to game more.
He pointed out HBFreck in the hallway. He told me she went to highschool too, and said I should approach her. I decided to go give it a shot. I opened her with “I heard you’re in high school” lol. At first she was like who told you but then when I told her I was too she went nuts. We had a world between us because of that commonality. We discussed how badass we are and how our friends are all pussys. She starts touching over me, kino escalating me hard. She gives me a shot of some liquor she had. Then BW walked into the set and I gave her a hug (JEALOUSY PLOTLINE BEGINS NOW MUHUHAHAHA). I lean back against the wall where I was standing with HBFreck and her attraction level is spiking. She’s giving me the eyes and presses up against me. I gaze back at her and she starts pulling my head in, she wanted to make out right there in set with KingMelons, Flow, and BW. I push her away and say “not now woman we’re in public”. She loves this and wraps herself around me. I told her I was leaving with Flow and our group to another frat and she wanted to roll w/ but needed to find her friend first. She found her friend and we started walking out. The second we get outside I look at her for a second inquisitively, then I just pulled her in and we made out. She went nuts for the five seconds we hooked up and then I pushed her off, it’s good to be challenging.
I’m outside in conversation with both BW and HBFreck, they are politely bitching each other out. That’s fucking right, girls were subtly fighting over me. Both of them were glaring at me with blatant "fuck me" eyes. If you know what I'm talking about it's unmistakable. I turned around and told Flow “I won the game” lol. We started to leave when Freck’s friend started freaking out and questioning where we were going and logistical stuff. Her friend wanted to go back to the party, and HBFreck told me she couldn’t go with me. I remembered not to beg her for anything and looked at her saying “if you want to stay that’s fine”. She convinced her friend to go with us.
We get to the destination but don’t really know the address, so we walk into some apartment building by accident. I cycle between hooking up and sexually framing her against the wall, I was setting things up for the SNL. I already worked out that she didn’t have to be home until she wanted too so I felt like It was set. We arrive at Frat2 and HBFreck won’t leave my side. Things seemed to be good and the best thing I could do was nothing. As it ended up however, neither of my wings attracted HBFreck’s friend enough to make her want to come back with us to Flow’s dorm. Extremely disappointing, because she ended up pulling the cockblock. HBFreck helplessly tried convincing her friend to let me put it in, but she couldn’t win. I got the number and plan on trying some new text game theory I’ve been learning about on her. A day2 would almost certainly end happily if I just don’t mess things up.
Flow and I open another set of people downstairs, a mixed set with three guys and two girls. We opened asking if KingMelons looked gay and disqualified with sexual preference. They rolled off but later I reopened with “who lies more”. The cute one in a bikini began to answer it when I cut her off with a cold read. I told her she looked like she wasn’t from around here or some BS and couldn’t really isolate. She ran off and we decided to bounce. Missed the fucking SNL, but I was close.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Sexual tension may have dissipated after I made out with HBFreck for too long at Frat2, I should reduce hooking up to preserve tension, instead I’ll qualify more next time
2) Instead of getting into AMOG battles I’ll ignore next time
3) The non-reactive answer to her threatening to leave went over perfectly. I’ll remember this
4) Jealousy fucking plotlines kill
5) Plowing can be used in the middle of people sentences effectively, interrupting
6) Two sets are a logistical problem.
7) Creating a private world creates an instant connection that sparks huge amounts of attraction, integrate this into a routine possibly roll-playing more often
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Monday, January 18, 2010
FR: DRect
Logistics:
Sunday January 17th, 2010
Location: Tabu
Friends: KingMelons, Tallz, LSER, Yacob
Report:
Since too many things happened over the course of the night for me to remember the chronological order, I plan on making this more like a highlight reel of the night / observations type of report. I noticed a lot of interesting things and had a great night experimenting with only direct game. The only opener I used on groups was “I’ve been wandering around this bar looking for cool people to talk to and I can’t find any, but now I’ve found you guys, and we’re in a conversation. Cool.” The only opener I used on lone wolves was something that ranged from “you’re cute” to “you’re so fucking sexy”.
I roll into Tabu with KingMelons by my side, trying to come up with a game-plan. We walk to the non-dancing section and saw barely any sets. Most girls were on the dance floor standing or grinding with guys. This wasn’t an optimal situation for the night. But to start getting warmed up, I decided to dance with some girls, as it’s becoming second nature to me at this point to confidently approach on the dance floor. I still remember when I would look in and see guys doing crazy shit to the girls. I was intimidated by the insanity of the dance floor and would be too scared to try. It’s not the same at all, just a couple months later.
I started going from girl to girl in the hectic dimly lit environment, and I became calm and centered quickly. I felt like I was ready to do some approaches for real and just have a good time, because worst case I could always dance more. I walk to the seated area and get into a set with KingMelons. He points out his target with the tweedle-dum/tweedle-dee line and I distract the obstacles. He wandered away so I decided it was pointless and moved on.
I open a four set leaning against the bar with my group direct opener. It hooks immediately and they ask me where I’m from. The conversation began to stall out though, I couldn’t tell what to do because I felt material would regress my game since I went direct. I think I’ll use more attraction material in set next time.
I also opened a two set directly later. Same thing happened it hooked and went extremely well. We talked for about ten minutes until I had to meet my friend, I met up with them later on the dance floor. That one was a lot more natural and didn’t stall out. I was just being funny and having a good time.
I ran the direct opener on a five set. Same thing it blew open and they were all talking to me, fascinated that I could say something like that. One was like, do you want to take a picture with us? I said sure and the flash went off, with me in the middle of five fucking girls. PRESELECTION, especially when we went to dance later and they were all dancing around me. I was like the 10 in a group of hungry guys, except they were famished girls.
Opened another seated two set the same way. Again it hooked the second I closed my mouth. What is this? Do I have magical powers? Am I a warlock of some sort? No direct game fucking rules. But they ran to the bathroom for some girlish reason so it didn’t really go anywhere.
I didn’t even fuck around on the dance floor either, I was making my intent super clear all night. I remember one time when a wing and I were walking around looking for girls to dance with, I walked right up to them and loudly asked him which one he wanted. I honestly gave a fuck if they understood, which they definitely did bc I was pointing at them and shit while they were staring at us deciding which ones to take. Making intent known conveys ridiculous attraction and generates compliance, the dominant frame owns all.
At one point I was grinding with a girl and a black kid walked up behind one of her friends. Calmly, he used his hand to push her down on all fours, and started dry humping her from behind. Through all of our laughing and watching, he didn’t react to me or my girl once. He stayed congruent and he had that girl bent over for about fifteen minutes. At one point he made it ok for me, my girl said I could do that if I wanted, but I just felt uncomfortable raping on the dance floor. Another example of how congruence and dominant frame always prevails. Because he didn’t care what any of us thought, he was able to get away with scandalous shit I wouldn’t dream of. The extent that this applies with women blows my mind.
I managed to completely change one girl’s mentality through a combination of investment hoops and vulnerability bonding. I walked up to KingMelons in set and he pointed out his target. He wanted to dance with her but her group wouldn’t go because of their shy friend. I was like, “OK which one is she” lol. They pointed her out to me and I told her she looked cute. She was like thanks and I was like omg we have to dance, you have nothing to worry about. She initially said no, then I was like “are you serious? I’m a total dork I play Zelda all day I’m harmless”. She was laughing so I decided to try Brad P’s slow dancing technique again to make her more comfortable; I also figured it was a good medium hoop before grinding. We sweetly sway together to the blasting music while she firmly squeezes my hand. I tell her that she’s bringing up memories of sixth grade all over again. Finally Melons set and shy girl walk out to the dance floor, where I look at her like ok you’re ready and I flip her around to grind. Switchin’ up them mindsets BITCHEZ!
TWO MOST IMPORTANT SETS:
I learned the most from these sets, so I’ll describe them with a little more accuracy. The first girl I’ll call HBLibrarian. By consensus of LSER, KingMelons, and I she was a solid 9.5 if not 10 up close. She was gorgeous, it seemed like the whole club was looking at her. I opened her up directly (obv), I told her she was totally my type and I had to talk to her. I positioned myself against the bar so she was leaning next to me. BL down. We began to banter and I was throwing chick crack her way. Saying things like OMG I don’t date book nerds you need to get away from me come here I love you blah blah etc. I managed to flirt for about two minutes then we started to talk. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. For some reason I thought that was a shit test. I now realize how low my self-esteem really is, I couldn’t believe a ten was into me. It is completely out of my reality that she could like me, so I fucked up. I told her I was dating twenty girls here which was retarded because she was into me and I blew her off. So she told me to go find them then. Completely understandable response. I stayed in damage control with her for another minute or so when her peer group came. I told was talking to them about how their librarian friend was taking me to the “do it yourself” section, and I was like what do you mean do it yourself?? Lol they were laughing at her. But again she told me to go find my girlfriends. I think that was a shit-test now but I just left, thinking I fucked shit up.
I found HBLibrarian later seated. She was looking at me and biting her lips, it felt so on. I took her to the dance floor and she was doing crazy shit I had no idea what was going on. I also had everyone looking at me and didn’t feel relaxed, I was wondering what she was thinking. I told her she was a bad dancer and wanted to qualify to see where I was. I asked her what type of music she liked against the bar again but attraction was gone so she said everything. FUCKFUCKFUCK. Another ten slipped through my fingers. Whatever, abundance says there are tons of hot chicks out there and I was fired up.
I go back out to the dance floor. I saw this chick, she was texting, while people were smashing privates all around her. I walked up and I was like what the fuck are you texting for lets dance. She kind of sucked but she was cute so I stayed with her for a couple minutes.
Then out of the corner of my eye, like it was fate, I spot an HB9 walk by me to the edge of the dance floor. She was sooo my type, about 5’ 4” with a nice ass and her tities were pushing out her sexy schoolgirl attire. She was looking into the floor alone and I realized that was my chance. I fucking threw the girl I was with off me and headed towards her. I tell her “you’re so fucking sexy, let’s dance”. No pussy-footing around. Makeout. Then she walked away. It was a pretty gangster kiss close in my opinion. Wicked night for me and KingMelonz overall.
SP / Thoughts:
1) The ten problem will only resolve itself with more experience in field
2) Need more A2 material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct game is cheating (my new favorite style)
4) A good PUA can change mindsets easily with calibration and sets of investment hoops
5) Maybe I should take a dance class with Melons
6) Dominant frame and non-reactivity overrides social awkwardness
Sunday January 17th, 2010
Location: Tabu
Friends: KingMelons, Tallz, LSER, Yacob
Report:
Since too many things happened over the course of the night for me to remember the chronological order, I plan on making this more like a highlight reel of the night / observations type of report. I noticed a lot of interesting things and had a great night experimenting with only direct game. The only opener I used on groups was “I’ve been wandering around this bar looking for cool people to talk to and I can’t find any, but now I’ve found you guys, and we’re in a conversation. Cool.” The only opener I used on lone wolves was something that ranged from “you’re cute” to “you’re so fucking sexy”.
I roll into Tabu with KingMelons by my side, trying to come up with a game-plan. We walk to the non-dancing section and saw barely any sets. Most girls were on the dance floor standing or grinding with guys. This wasn’t an optimal situation for the night. But to start getting warmed up, I decided to dance with some girls, as it’s becoming second nature to me at this point to confidently approach on the dance floor. I still remember when I would look in and see guys doing crazy shit to the girls. I was intimidated by the insanity of the dance floor and would be too scared to try. It’s not the same at all, just a couple months later.
I started going from girl to girl in the hectic dimly lit environment, and I became calm and centered quickly. I felt like I was ready to do some approaches for real and just have a good time, because worst case I could always dance more. I walk to the seated area and get into a set with KingMelons. He points out his target with the tweedle-dum/tweedle-dee line and I distract the obstacles. He wandered away so I decided it was pointless and moved on.
I open a four set leaning against the bar with my group direct opener. It hooks immediately and they ask me where I’m from. The conversation began to stall out though, I couldn’t tell what to do because I felt material would regress my game since I went direct. I think I’ll use more attraction material in set next time.
I also opened a two set directly later. Same thing happened it hooked and went extremely well. We talked for about ten minutes until I had to meet my friend, I met up with them later on the dance floor. That one was a lot more natural and didn’t stall out. I was just being funny and having a good time.
I ran the direct opener on a five set. Same thing it blew open and they were all talking to me, fascinated that I could say something like that. One was like, do you want to take a picture with us? I said sure and the flash went off, with me in the middle of five fucking girls. PRESELECTION, especially when we went to dance later and they were all dancing around me. I was like the 10 in a group of hungry guys, except they were famished girls.
Opened another seated two set the same way. Again it hooked the second I closed my mouth. What is this? Do I have magical powers? Am I a warlock of some sort? No direct game fucking rules. But they ran to the bathroom for some girlish reason so it didn’t really go anywhere.
I didn’t even fuck around on the dance floor either, I was making my intent super clear all night. I remember one time when a wing and I were walking around looking for girls to dance with, I walked right up to them and loudly asked him which one he wanted. I honestly gave a fuck if they understood, which they definitely did bc I was pointing at them and shit while they were staring at us deciding which ones to take. Making intent known conveys ridiculous attraction and generates compliance, the dominant frame owns all.
At one point I was grinding with a girl and a black kid walked up behind one of her friends. Calmly, he used his hand to push her down on all fours, and started dry humping her from behind. Through all of our laughing and watching, he didn’t react to me or my girl once. He stayed congruent and he had that girl bent over for about fifteen minutes. At one point he made it ok for me, my girl said I could do that if I wanted, but I just felt uncomfortable raping on the dance floor. Another example of how congruence and dominant frame always prevails. Because he didn’t care what any of us thought, he was able to get away with scandalous shit I wouldn’t dream of. The extent that this applies with women blows my mind.
I managed to completely change one girl’s mentality through a combination of investment hoops and vulnerability bonding. I walked up to KingMelons in set and he pointed out his target. He wanted to dance with her but her group wouldn’t go because of their shy friend. I was like, “OK which one is she” lol. They pointed her out to me and I told her she looked cute. She was like thanks and I was like omg we have to dance, you have nothing to worry about. She initially said no, then I was like “are you serious? I’m a total dork I play Zelda all day I’m harmless”. She was laughing so I decided to try Brad P’s slow dancing technique again to make her more comfortable; I also figured it was a good medium hoop before grinding. We sweetly sway together to the blasting music while she firmly squeezes my hand. I tell her that she’s bringing up memories of sixth grade all over again. Finally Melons set and shy girl walk out to the dance floor, where I look at her like ok you’re ready and I flip her around to grind. Switchin’ up them mindsets BITCHEZ!
TWO MOST IMPORTANT SETS:
I learned the most from these sets, so I’ll describe them with a little more accuracy. The first girl I’ll call HBLibrarian. By consensus of LSER, KingMelons, and I she was a solid 9.5 if not 10 up close. She was gorgeous, it seemed like the whole club was looking at her. I opened her up directly (obv), I told her she was totally my type and I had to talk to her. I positioned myself against the bar so she was leaning next to me. BL down. We began to banter and I was throwing chick crack her way. Saying things like OMG I don’t date book nerds you need to get away from me come here I love you blah blah etc. I managed to flirt for about two minutes then we started to talk. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. For some reason I thought that was a shit test. I now realize how low my self-esteem really is, I couldn’t believe a ten was into me. It is completely out of my reality that she could like me, so I fucked up. I told her I was dating twenty girls here which was retarded because she was into me and I blew her off. So she told me to go find them then. Completely understandable response. I stayed in damage control with her for another minute or so when her peer group came. I told was talking to them about how their librarian friend was taking me to the “do it yourself” section, and I was like what do you mean do it yourself?? Lol they were laughing at her. But again she told me to go find my girlfriends. I think that was a shit-test now but I just left, thinking I fucked shit up.
I found HBLibrarian later seated. She was looking at me and biting her lips, it felt so on. I took her to the dance floor and she was doing crazy shit I had no idea what was going on. I also had everyone looking at me and didn’t feel relaxed, I was wondering what she was thinking. I told her she was a bad dancer and wanted to qualify to see where I was. I asked her what type of music she liked against the bar again but attraction was gone so she said everything. FUCKFUCKFUCK. Another ten slipped through my fingers. Whatever, abundance says there are tons of hot chicks out there and I was fired up.
I go back out to the dance floor. I saw this chick, she was texting, while people were smashing privates all around her. I walked up and I was like what the fuck are you texting for lets dance. She kind of sucked but she was cute so I stayed with her for a couple minutes.
Then out of the corner of my eye, like it was fate, I spot an HB9 walk by me to the edge of the dance floor. She was sooo my type, about 5’ 4” with a nice ass and her tities were pushing out her sexy schoolgirl attire. She was looking into the floor alone and I realized that was my chance. I fucking threw the girl I was with off me and headed towards her. I tell her “you’re so fucking sexy, let’s dance”. No pussy-footing around. Makeout. Then she walked away. It was a pretty gangster kiss close in my opinion. Wicked night for me and KingMelonz overall.
SP / Thoughts:
1) The ten problem will only resolve itself with more experience in field
2) Need more A2 material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct game is cheating (my new favorite style)
4) A good PUA can change mindsets easily with calibration and sets of investment hoops
5) Maybe I should take a dance class with Melons
6) Dominant frame and non-reactivity overrides social awkwardness
Sunday, January 17, 2010
FR: Melon Party
Logistics:
Saturday, January 16th 2010
Location: Melons House
Wings: YP, KingMelons, RM, Tallz
Pivot: SM, EB, Redz
Report:
I knew I would have a hard time at this party, because I got substantially high beforehand. Honestly, I was looking down at the world underneath my feet. Lime Haze is powerful. But either way, I couldn’t just sit and relax even though I wanted too. I have turned myself into a game machine, and I can’t stop my body from throwing me into sets at this point. My game was off for the most part because of this paradox, and yet the report goes as follows.
Returning to KingMelons house from downtown Boston at around 9, the party began. No one was really there at first, so I got into a heated game of ping pong downstairs with a couple friends. Then people began to file in. At first, they were all people from my school that I knew, so I wasn’t too stoaked, but I knew I could still have fun. I went upstairs to talk to KingMelon, then when I went back down An HB9 who I hadn’t talked to in three years but I used to be friends with was in the doorway. She stopped me and we began to chat.
She brought up callback humor. The name I used to call her, fetus, made me laugh and we talked for a little before she said that the conversation was a little awkward. I asked her why, and she pointed at this girl next to her who was laughing. I actually hadn’t seen her until she pointed her out. Lol talk about tunnel vision. She was an HB2 at the most who I guess was laughing while I was trying to mack. Anyway I looked at her puzzled, and ejected because I wanted to get some beer.
Later I went back to talk to her by walking up next to her and talking to EB, who was on her other side. I struck up a conversation with her, but by the time I turned around my target had left… FUCK. I had time but I was waiting for a cue or something that never came. I need to take more initiative game wise.
Next my friend YP arrived, and he had a HB9+ from his school on his side. I asked if he was going for her and he was. Upsetting, but I understood. I AI’d YP with the girl and went off into some set of my friends for random conversation.
Finally new girls came, and I was pulled into set with them by Tallz. He AI’d me and I began to talk, but my game was so off I couldn’t keep a convo going with these girls. There was nothing particularly attractive about them, but I decided to try to run Best Friends Test anyway to see if it would work. It absolutely bombed, proving even more to me that game isn’t about what you say it’s about your attitude and the frame you put out. Good mental side note. Since they weren’t responding I just ejected.
I chilled with friends for a while until another new set of girls came. In the party area, they walked in and positioned themselves against the wall. They were alright, but sitting and watching the chode crystal slowly form from across the room was interesting enough for me to not approach yet. RM who is pretty competent approached first, and then hordes followed. They were peering over each others shoulders at the girls while he gamed, and I was explaining the chodes loss of value from bad BL to a friend sitting next to me. He could see it happening as well.
After RM rolled out, the chode stalactite fell apart and the girls were by themselves. I begin to make eye contact with one of them, and she is receptive. We hold each others gaze for about four seconds before she looks away. Again, I felt like I would blow it, but I approached anyway. I walk up to the girl who made eye contact and said “hi”. I introduced myself to her and her friends and we talked for a little until she became completely non-responsive and said “I’m so high right now”. I laughed and back turned her because I legitimately fail at plowing under the influence, it’s kind of sad but at least I know my SP’s vary based on states of consciousness.
Some time goes by and I go upstairs because new people are arriving again. I spot SM and give her a hug. We get into a conversation about her fight with YP and I tell her that if he asks I think she’s a man eating bitch. It creates a sexual tension barrier between us that I know will make things flirty for the night. She introduces me to some cute friends of hers, strolling me in on my arm. I talk to the group and all of them begin to ask questions about me, and I am finally in state. It took three failed sets but it happened, even under the influence. I didn’t think it was possible. The problem is that my state is situational, it needs to be from within. I still have inner game issues to work on.
Anyway, I leave SM’s set to give YP some consolation. I tell him she’s the devil, he happens to be in a mixed 6 set, with 3 girls (an HB4, and two HB9’s). I begin to talk to the set as a whole and they are loving me. We talk about the usual shit, then I notice the cuter HB9 is giving me shit tests. I look at her and roll my eyes then continue talking to one of the guys. Reds walked out of the house behind me and I gave her a hug for pre-selection. Then I negged the target in group for making a loud pointless comment and her group laughed. After that she started giving me IOI’s like a free candy. She was asking me where I was from, who I was, and the typical boring stuff. I ignored half her questions to talk to the group, then I told her I was Russian and she kept saying Russian phrases to try to get my attention. When she said I love you I looked and said aww. I asked her for her name which I now forgot and was about to sit next to her and ask her a small qualification hoop question when she had to go…
Didn’t really get to take that interaction anywhere but before she left I called her a dork and she responded with “that’s rude” smiling. I rolled my eyes once again and her set along with SM and the rest of the girls left. Interesting night.
SP / Thoughts:
1) Negging works like a fucking charm, I tease normally, but her interest here spiked so fast it was ridiculous
2) I need to have a sold structure to my game. Winging it doesn’t really get me the results I want
3) Struggling with inner game issues
4) Need to learn how to AI wings better
5) Stop ejecting out of set when things are going fine
6) Gaming high makes me have to relearn the basics, I should try to stay sober or tips
Saturday, January 16th 2010
Location: Melons House
Wings: YP, KingMelons, RM, Tallz
Pivot: SM, EB, Redz
Report:
I knew I would have a hard time at this party, because I got substantially high beforehand. Honestly, I was looking down at the world underneath my feet. Lime Haze is powerful. But either way, I couldn’t just sit and relax even though I wanted too. I have turned myself into a game machine, and I can’t stop my body from throwing me into sets at this point. My game was off for the most part because of this paradox, and yet the report goes as follows.
Returning to KingMelons house from downtown Boston at around 9, the party began. No one was really there at first, so I got into a heated game of ping pong downstairs with a couple friends. Then people began to file in. At first, they were all people from my school that I knew, so I wasn’t too stoaked, but I knew I could still have fun. I went upstairs to talk to KingMelon, then when I went back down An HB9 who I hadn’t talked to in three years but I used to be friends with was in the doorway. She stopped me and we began to chat.
She brought up callback humor. The name I used to call her, fetus, made me laugh and we talked for a little before she said that the conversation was a little awkward. I asked her why, and she pointed at this girl next to her who was laughing. I actually hadn’t seen her until she pointed her out. Lol talk about tunnel vision. She was an HB2 at the most who I guess was laughing while I was trying to mack. Anyway I looked at her puzzled, and ejected because I wanted to get some beer.
Later I went back to talk to her by walking up next to her and talking to EB, who was on her other side. I struck up a conversation with her, but by the time I turned around my target had left… FUCK. I had time but I was waiting for a cue or something that never came. I need to take more initiative game wise.
Next my friend YP arrived, and he had a HB9+ from his school on his side. I asked if he was going for her and he was. Upsetting, but I understood. I AI’d YP with the girl and went off into some set of my friends for random conversation.
Finally new girls came, and I was pulled into set with them by Tallz. He AI’d me and I began to talk, but my game was so off I couldn’t keep a convo going with these girls. There was nothing particularly attractive about them, but I decided to try to run Best Friends Test anyway to see if it would work. It absolutely bombed, proving even more to me that game isn’t about what you say it’s about your attitude and the frame you put out. Good mental side note. Since they weren’t responding I just ejected.
I chilled with friends for a while until another new set of girls came. In the party area, they walked in and positioned themselves against the wall. They were alright, but sitting and watching the chode crystal slowly form from across the room was interesting enough for me to not approach yet. RM who is pretty competent approached first, and then hordes followed. They were peering over each others shoulders at the girls while he gamed, and I was explaining the chodes loss of value from bad BL to a friend sitting next to me. He could see it happening as well.
After RM rolled out, the chode stalactite fell apart and the girls were by themselves. I begin to make eye contact with one of them, and she is receptive. We hold each others gaze for about four seconds before she looks away. Again, I felt like I would blow it, but I approached anyway. I walk up to the girl who made eye contact and said “hi”. I introduced myself to her and her friends and we talked for a little until she became completely non-responsive and said “I’m so high right now”. I laughed and back turned her because I legitimately fail at plowing under the influence, it’s kind of sad but at least I know my SP’s vary based on states of consciousness.
Some time goes by and I go upstairs because new people are arriving again. I spot SM and give her a hug. We get into a conversation about her fight with YP and I tell her that if he asks I think she’s a man eating bitch. It creates a sexual tension barrier between us that I know will make things flirty for the night. She introduces me to some cute friends of hers, strolling me in on my arm. I talk to the group and all of them begin to ask questions about me, and I am finally in state. It took three failed sets but it happened, even under the influence. I didn’t think it was possible. The problem is that my state is situational, it needs to be from within. I still have inner game issues to work on.
Anyway, I leave SM’s set to give YP some consolation. I tell him she’s the devil, he happens to be in a mixed 6 set, with 3 girls (an HB4, and two HB9’s). I begin to talk to the set as a whole and they are loving me. We talk about the usual shit, then I notice the cuter HB9 is giving me shit tests. I look at her and roll my eyes then continue talking to one of the guys. Reds walked out of the house behind me and I gave her a hug for pre-selection. Then I negged the target in group for making a loud pointless comment and her group laughed. After that she started giving me IOI’s like a free candy. She was asking me where I was from, who I was, and the typical boring stuff. I ignored half her questions to talk to the group, then I told her I was Russian and she kept saying Russian phrases to try to get my attention. When she said I love you I looked and said aww. I asked her for her name which I now forgot and was about to sit next to her and ask her a small qualification hoop question when she had to go…
Didn’t really get to take that interaction anywhere but before she left I called her a dork and she responded with “that’s rude” smiling. I rolled my eyes once again and her set along with SM and the rest of the girls left. Interesting night.
SP / Thoughts:
1) Negging works like a fucking charm, I tease normally, but her interest here spiked so fast it was ridiculous
2) I need to have a sold structure to my game. Winging it doesn’t really get me the results I want
3) Struggling with inner game issues
4) Need to learn how to AI wings better
5) Stop ejecting out of set when things are going fine
6) Gaming high makes me have to relearn the basics, I should try to stay sober or tips
FR: Natick
Logistics:
Friday, January 15th 2010
Location: Natick Mall
Wings: Tallz, KingMelon
Report:
We arrive at the Natick mall around 4, looking for some sets to day game. I have been making a conscious effort recently to be more direct, because I saw how it helps game a lot and propels thins right into qualification. We beging to look around.
I spot a set walking towards me and Tallz with a HB8+ and her Ugg friend. I open them with “who lies more”. The stop and we begin transitioning, DHVing etc. the set is going pretty well and at one point we hit the hook point, they were contributing.
Mini-Cold read – You look like the good one (to target) and you’re the bad one UGG.
Best Friends test with TD’s addition. Had them giggling
After this, the body language we had (facing them leaning against the wall) was to out of the ordinary to continue. We stalled out of the convo and ended up losing the set.
We continued to roll around the mall and I make eye contact with a gorgeous two-set. They were seated together on one chair so it wasn’t optimal, but I decided to open anyway. I went direct since they were very cute and I wanted to try it.
I open them with “hey I know this is totally random, but you guys are really cute and I would’ve kicked myself if I didn’t come up to talk to you”. It worked like a charm and they were laughing from the beginning. One said “my name is Marina”. I was like “my mom’s name is Marina… AWKWARD”. They giggled then we got into a normal conversation with Tallz. Turns out they were from my town and one of them dated a friend of mine. Kind of random but it helped with rapport a lot.
Also I am starting to see that hot girls can practically get whatever they want in this world. They were extremely hot girls, I’d say HB9 and an HB9.5. They were at the mall that day because one of the girls got texting taken away, and her friend (orbiter) who was working there was putting it back on her phone for free. WTF? Lol. I couldn’t really escalate, I built attraction but wasn’t able to timebridge before they left. So me and Tallz settled on connecting with them on FB.
I ran another set that blew open, it was easy and I had to go so I didn’t really take it anywhere. I opened with “what should I get for my thirteen year old niece’s birthday?” They hooked/loved it. Good day overall.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Need to come up with something to alter BL position
2) Maybe need more material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct Game wrecks
Friday, January 15th 2010
Location: Natick Mall
Wings: Tallz, KingMelon
Report:
We arrive at the Natick mall around 4, looking for some sets to day game. I have been making a conscious effort recently to be more direct, because I saw how it helps game a lot and propels thins right into qualification. We beging to look around.
I spot a set walking towards me and Tallz with a HB8+ and her Ugg friend. I open them with “who lies more”. The stop and we begin transitioning, DHVing etc. the set is going pretty well and at one point we hit the hook point, they were contributing.
Mini-Cold read – You look like the good one (to target) and you’re the bad one UGG.
Best Friends test with TD’s addition. Had them giggling
After this, the body language we had (facing them leaning against the wall) was to out of the ordinary to continue. We stalled out of the convo and ended up losing the set.
We continued to roll around the mall and I make eye contact with a gorgeous two-set. They were seated together on one chair so it wasn’t optimal, but I decided to open anyway. I went direct since they were very cute and I wanted to try it.
I open them with “hey I know this is totally random, but you guys are really cute and I would’ve kicked myself if I didn’t come up to talk to you”. It worked like a charm and they were laughing from the beginning. One said “my name is Marina”. I was like “my mom’s name is Marina… AWKWARD”. They giggled then we got into a normal conversation with Tallz. Turns out they were from my town and one of them dated a friend of mine. Kind of random but it helped with rapport a lot.
Also I am starting to see that hot girls can practically get whatever they want in this world. They were extremely hot girls, I’d say HB9 and an HB9.5. They were at the mall that day because one of the girls got texting taken away, and her friend (orbiter) who was working there was putting it back on her phone for free. WTF? Lol. I couldn’t really escalate, I built attraction but wasn’t able to timebridge before they left. So me and Tallz settled on connecting with them on FB.
I ran another set that blew open, it was easy and I had to go so I didn’t really take it anywhere. I opened with “what should I get for my thirteen year old niece’s birthday?” They hooked/loved it. Good day overall.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:
1) Need to come up with something to alter BL position
2) Maybe need more material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct Game wrecks
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