Field Report

Logistics:

Monday December 28th, 2009.

Locations: Club Tabu, Afterparty

Friends: KingMelon(Wing), RM, JP, YP, SM, JA

Girls I knew ahead of time: HBGreek, HBGirlTalk

Report:

I meet up with my wing KingMelon at his house around four, we hang out and discuss game and other things. We go out to meet up with JP and YP at six in our school's parking lot. We go to JA's house to pregame a little. I didn’t really have any, like one shot. I was sober but KingMelon drank a fair amount.

We head to Tabu and arrive around 8:15, and meet up with RM. He opened a three-set in line and I immediately locked in to talk with him and them. RM is a solid natural who has success without knowing what he's doing. He gave one of the girls his coat, she was an HB9 or 10 (Does chivalry help? On one hand you are conveying social intuition, but for you to suffer for her well being seems needy).

We get into the club, and I immediately open a set on my left with two guys and a girl, body rocking and looking like I won’t stay. I leave on a high note. Then I open a set directly next to them, just simple situational stuff. Again I left on a high note. I was experimenting with the “Celebrity Game” concept the Professional Pick Up Artist Legend told me about. Later I realized in a club with hundreds of people that becomes almost impossible to pull off. We go to the bathroom, leave and look for girls. I open a set to the right of me and her friend comes out of nowhere and tells me she is a lesbian. She pulls her away with me yelling “I love lesbians!” the girl I opened helplessly waves me goodbye.

We head around the dance floor, and I tap a girl on the shoulder in a five set. With RM and KingMelon following my lead. She says I “scared” her and jumps away. (How do I deal with this shit?) Anyway RM jumps in front of this blown open set and presumably asked a girl to dance. Still trying to recover with “scared” girl I look back and RM and KingMelon are both grinding on random girls in the set. I decide to move on because my wings are set and I can find my own.

I head around to the back where I see a three set waiting to be found. There was a 4 an 8 and a 9. I open over the shoulder with “who lies more men or women”, and it’s an instant hook, rooted with my buddies and I have been arguing about this. They were clearly bored and this was good enough for them to jump on. I start to transition to where they are from, and we know some people in common. Then RM and YP run into the set, excited because two were pretty hot. I accomplish intro my wings and RM and I get into a conversation with them. He talks to the 8 and the 9 while I occupy the 4. I decided to let him do his thing, naturals don't know they are stealing the target, but I wasn't to worried as I had the whole night ahead of me. He wanted to dance, and we headed to the dance floor following the girls. I grabbed the 8s hand because RM was with the other one and told her my name was Raze. She said hers was Esther and I told her it was old timey. HBGirlTalk walked by me mid-dance, and I threw Esther off to go give her a huge pre-selecting hug. She seemed out of it. Then Esther and I grinded for a couple songs.

We decided to go take a seat near the left side of the club with booths, and I sat next to Esther while the 9 sat on RM’s lap in an armchair. Esther and the obstacle decided to go get a drink, and since I wasn’t too invested yet I walked away, looking for another set or friends. I go find KingMelon chilling near the back and tell him we’re going to open a new set. Most of the girls were dancing, and though I knew I could walk up from behind, I wanted to exclusively practice real game, not just dance floor escalation. So I didn’t walk up from behind any dancing girls tonight.

We go near the left side where I was sitting with RM, and I spot a girl I vaguely know from my school there. Jen was there with her friend HB8. KingMelon and I approach and I take a seat next to Jen at first. Realizing I was blocking KingMelon off, I go around and sat next to HB8, so KingMelon and I could both isolate. We begin to talk and I assumed attraction because she was laughing at all my jokes. Even though she probably couldn’t have even heard them. I screened her, asking if she was into any sports. She answered something that fell into my frame. I pulled her up onto the glowing pedestal thing to dance. We ground for a couple of songs before the bouncer kicked us off. She went to talk to another guy when we got down, so I decided to leave to preserve value/ I didn’t really care because she wasn’t really up to my standards.

I wander around to the back and find RM again. We were circling the club when I see HBGreek, who I had already hooked up with, and she immediately starts hooking up with me, but says she needs to go to the bathroom. I was like ok no problem. She left.

Next thing I remember I was in the back again, I saw KingMelon perched up against the wall. I picked him up and pushed him around a little, screaming “Don’t be a CHODE!!” KingMelon says ok goes to look for girls on the dance floor. SM (a girl in our friends group) comes up from behind and asks me to dance, I tell her I don’t know, and that she should be hooking up with KingMelon. She eventually pulls me to the dance floor, where I see HBGirlTalk on my left. HBGirlTalk uses her might to yank me over and starts grinding the fuck out of my front. She was vicious. Her friends can’t handle seeing her like that and just walk away. This goes on for a while, until I rotate her to face me, and we start to get a little more intimate. She was visibly drunk but we kept dancing. The song ended and she said she was going to get back to her friends. I was like ok bye hun.

I go to the back area because I realized I was just looking for HBGreek, I am priming her to be an FB and not really in the mood to open new sets. I didn’t want to mess things up with her by having her see me hook up with another girl. I find Jen and HB8 in the back, and start having a conversation with them. The conversation gets to weed at some point and HB8 says that she blazes all the time. She wanted me to put her number in my phone so that I could call her. I told her I didn’t know her well enough, and ioi’s began pouring out of her lol. Disqualifying is extremely powerful. I genuinely didn’t want it though. So then I texted HBGreek to meet me, and she came while I was in a conversation with Jen. She sat right on my lap and started making out with me. Jealous much? Idk.

HBGreek dragged me to the dance floor. Her drunk obstacle friend is screaming about how much she wants dick. I try to be nice to her and tell her that I’m sure she’ll get some soon, but I wouldn’t make any of my wings dance with her, because I respect them too much. Things get intense immediately. We are hooking up and incredibly close to each other physically. We were pressed hard against one another. We make out for a while then she turns to grind. We are dancing like normal then she takes my hands off her waist and starts putting them all over her. On her breasts and up her thighs, I got pretty close to fingering her on the dance floor when she pushes my hand away. But we continuously transitioned between hooking up and me groping her for a while. Then she said she was too hot and wanted to sit down. We went to the seats near the back. We talked for a while when my friends told me we were bouncing to an afterparty. I gave HBGreek the address and we started to go. Finding people became somewhat of a hassle, but we left soon.

After some driving with SM's leg on me in the backseat we got to the party. The second we walk down people are all over us. It was in a small basement, and I hadn’t met any of the people there. The girls were all introducing themselves to me and shaking my hand, one was even touching my face until I swatted her away. She asked me to dance and I rejected her because she wasn’t hot enough, but props for trying. I spot a solid 10 at the party HBBraces and introduce myself. I screened her right after the opener, because I generally didn’t care what happened. I still thought HBGreek would come. The 10 starts grinding me and I don’t fight it. I’m making her laugh and cracking dumb jokes from behind her, but whatever it works. We got separated when she got distracted or something but I didn’t lose value by waiting for her.

I started talking to my wing KingMelon, we sat down on the couch together. I overheard some of the girls talking about how hot those guys were on the couch lol. A girl approached him asking him to dance. She sat down next to him and I let him do his thing with her. I saw a cute girl standing alone and we began to talk. We ground and YP walked up from behind and told me that she had a boyfriend. Which would have been annoying, except he was there, and 6 feet tall. I told her I wasn’t really thinking about hooking up with anyone right now and we continued dancing. I asked her if she had anything going for her other than her looks, and she replied “not really”. WTF? I probably would have guided qualification if I was trying to take it somewhere. I built up way to much value from turning girls down.

I start talking to SM about how much she loves black guys and the trippy disco ball in the center of the room. I see the ten looking at me when I turn around and I continued our conversation about whatever. I got the number and was walking away to leave when we found out we had a little more time. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit and we talked about heritage, she loved that I was Russian and I made fun of her friend who could only say “I’m not drunk” by calling her a liar. Then that party ended. Whatever, it was a sweet night overall. I had a lot of fun and gained great new experiences to apply to the future.

Sticking Points / Questions:

1) Can chivalry be used in a non-needy way?
2) How do I deal with shit tests that happen right after opening?
3) How much time should I devote to girls I already know?
4) How do you reject girls without looking like a dick?