This
pickup was one of the ones that are so perfect you feel like you are on fire
and didn’t slip up. If this was mortal combat it would have been a flawless
victory.
I met
her at a house party. She walked in while I was talking to KingMelons. I
immediately looked at her and said we are talking about life stories, tell me
yours. She told me where she went to elementary school, then high school, then
college. I told her that couldn’t really sum up her whole life. That was a tiny
neg. She came in with a male friend, so I was a bit concerned that they were
dating at first but that got cleared up. She was an English major and so was KingMelons,
and we had a short discussion about their different styles and focuses in their
work.
This
began stalling out and I pulled all four of us outside. We crawled out through
a window onto the balcony to chat. I went out first, and held her heels as she
crawled through. She later told me that she thought this was gentlemanly. We
talked outside for a bit. I overheard her male friend tell her that I was into
her and that she should go for it. YES! A cool and not jealous male friend who
is on my side? I was floored because I had been getting cock blocked at every
turn by most friends. This guy is a true g. I used this opportunity to ask how they knew
each other, to get some logistics out of the way. She said they were house
mates, and I said oh that’s cool I have roommates as well. Then she teased me
about the house mate roommate difference and we laughed about the dumb
particulars of these phrases. English majors :P! She said she was going to the
bathroom, and I was a bit worried that she was going to leave and go do other
shit or something but I stayed put and met her male friend outside. He turned
out to be really funny and said that he makes friends by walking up to people
and asking point blank if they will be friends now lol. He also was yelling at passersby
peoples.
She came
back and popped her head through the window, saying she didn’t really want to
come back because it was too cold outside. I realized this was an opportunity
for me to isolate. I agreed and leaped back in through the window. I
immediately started chatting her up and isolated her in a way in which her
friend and my friend couldn’t really join in on the conversation, like we were
face to face in a corner. KingMelons left us alone. This caused her male friend
to sit on a couch and look at us. I realized this was getting a bit awkward and
moved her to a table in another room. So at this point I had been able to move
her twice. This was a good sign, she was compliant.
I
isolated her at the table and we talked more about our lives and specifically
her intention to study abroad. I gave her a lot of my personal favorite places
in Europe and some recommendations of museums etc. Things were progressing well
and she was giving me the bambi eyes. I felt like it was so on. The conversation
turned to her playing spin the bottle and having no problem with kissing people
when she had played the game before. I straight up asked if she wanted to kiss
me after this, and she said yes. We made out for about 10 seconds and then I
pulled away, it felt kind of mutual actually. I turned the conversation back to
talking. This was fucking perfection and I have been loving disengaging sexual
progression. I was perfectly able to cycle out of the frame of a seedy pickup
and into a regular interaction where mutual interest is established. I honestly
think that disengaging from sexual points first is the second largest
attraction switch next to pre selection.
We
talked for a bit more, and I got her number. I texted her that night that it
was cool to meet her. I had been trying to incorporate Tyler Durden’s idea of
not texting anything that it would be awkward to respond to into my text game.
At some points it seems like you have to ask something that it would be awkward
to respond to, but most of the time it is easily avoidable. I finally got her
to agree to go out with me 5 days after we met at the party.
I have
been doing a new thing on dates where I fulfill all of society’s expectations
of a man’s role in the dating process. It feels really fun and right to do, and
has gotten me laid both times I’ve done it so far. By fulfilling the man’s role
I mean being a spontaneous, funny, and romantic guy, who plans everything. When
I picked her up I had set up a house to stay in by a lake, and got us food and
wines before the date began. We got to the lake and floated a bit outside
drinking wine and joking around together. Eventually we were just making out in
the floaters so much that it made sense to just go inside. We hung out making
out for another hourish before we had sex. There were really no slip ups on my
part, it felt like I was just working with all of my pickup machinery wired for
success with this girl. All In all we were face to face for about 4 hours
before sex. This is pretty god damn fast for me. We proceeded to hang out and
hook up for the next four days in a row, and I really like this chick. Unfortunately
she is in a different city, so it won’t work out into anything major, maybe
just a girl to hang out with when I go back to Boston. She is truly awesome and
has one of the best personalities of any girl I’ve ever met. That’s not to
mention how cute she is.
Here's a picture of her:
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