Throwback

It's been about two years since I'v updated this blog. I can't believe how far I've come as a person throughout that time. My goals have majorly changed along with my outlook on life. Since HBBoobweed I have realized that if I know what I was doing in bed back then she would have been mine. I have destroyed two relationships since then and left the girl begging for more each time. The first one was a big mistake on my part, the second became my current girlfriend of 6 months.

I haven't been to a club in ages. The last time I went was four months ago and I made out with some slut, old habits die hard I guess. Anyway I kept it from my girlfriend for a while before I told her. I was scared that it would break us up and that it would crush her. But I knew telling her was the right thing to do because I can't lie to her when I look into her gorgeous eyes. She forgave me because shes an angel and she understands that I'm past that kind of thing.

There's no reason for me to game really anymore, at least until I convince her to have a threesome with me. Then we can start looking for girls to join us in the freaky shit we do in bed. I can't stress how good she is, she does pretty much whatever I want whenever. (We had sex 4 times yesterday, because it was Wednesday lol)

I will never stop seeing things through a seduction altered lens. I can still read social interaction and attraction cues like numbers in the matrix. If this relationship falls through I'll be back into it for sure. But I don't see that happening. My ultimate goal was always to find a girl that I loved enough to want to marry and spend my life with. She's the one.

So yes this is going to be sappy, but I'm leaving this blog indefinitely on a positive note. Game was the reason I was able to achieve my goals with women, and find the perfect woman for me. The experiences that I blogged about over the many months that I practiced game changed me from an introverted kid to the confident and sexually secure man that I am today.

I hope all of the followers of game win it, it certainly feels like I have. The prize is peace of mind and the ability to cultivate a life without obsession with the chase. Good luck.

FR: Fuck the Police

Logistics: 4/8/2010
Location: Middle East Nightclub
Wing: Vincent Gallager

Report:

This was a night when I really wanted to go out since I hadn’t in a while. I extremely excited to see how my skills were doing even when I hadn’t been using them in almost over a month. It was comforting to see that they were still up to my current par. The night went like this.

We arrive at the central stop station in Cambridge at around 9:30. We make our way to the club and notice a group of cute girls walking the same way. I opened situationally by asking where the venue was. They said they were going to the same club so I was excited. But they didn’t really slow down to talk. I could have planned this out better but it was still good that I opened.

We got inside and nothing fun was happening yet. There was some shitty band playing acoustic guitars or something so we decided to roll out for a little to chill. We went outside, and it was a lot better when we returned. There were lots more people in the venue and many sets to toy with. The girls we talked to earlier smiled at Vincent, so I knew we could use them later as well, even though they weren’t that receptive at first.

I open a set to the right of me by genuinely talking about how I wanted to be raving instead of listening to some shitty folk or something. One girl was more into talking to me than her friends so I decided to go with it. She was funny though she was probably like an HB7, and I built attraction with her in about ten minutes, using lots of quirky humor and some new heavy kino escalation techniques from Gambler. A new band came on and we pushed up to the front row to dance.

I pulled the girl into me and we grinded for a couple of the songs. I kept qualifying her sexually and she insisted that she would prove herself to me later. It hurts to get all these potential same night lays when you don’t have a place to pull to. It will come soon enough.

She went to get another drink, she was 21, and told me to wait for her. Instead I just went and re-opened that old set we had talked to on the street. They were extremely receptive now, it could have been the fact that it was the second approach or that they saw us having fun with the other group of girls. We talked for a while and I noticed the HB7 looking at me with a heavy set of “fuck me” eyes. It was cute but not enough to make me chase her.

Instead me and Vince started dancing to the now furious beats of techno music. We were having a shit load of fun and I hit a three set of cute girls to the right of us with some salt shaker dance moves. They responded with cowgirl stuff and I brought the dice move into the equation. I lassoed around her and began to reel a cute one in when the HB7 walked back up in front of me.

“What are you doing with these other bitches? I’m hotter than them.” She jealously blurted. I teased her for being that type of girl and we continued to dance. Then I convinced her to give me some alcohol. The second I took a sip I felt a strong hand on my shoulder pulling me towards the exit.

The fucking feds strike again. I got kicked out and didn’t even get her name. I talked to the officer about how the laws were bullshit and he even told me he drank at my age. Whatever I wasn’t too disappointed. I had an extremely fun evening and I know that because of abundance mentality I won’t fawn over any missed opportunities.
I was on fire all night.

SP / Thoughts:

1. I will no longer drink in clubs with police watching, or at least I will be very careful.
2. Gambler method is stellar for building attraction and comfort quickly.
3. Girls on the street need to be approached from the front.
4. Working on ways to switch targets.

Lay Report

HBBoobWeed

In the heat of my Haloween Frat extravaganza that I was swept into, I opened BW’s set with her off somewhere. With my wings KingMelons, Flow, and ___ standing in the center of the room, I locked into the set with a twirl manuever. BW’s friends are gross though so I ejected after I had won the set, she wasn’t there and I had no target in mind. We are deciding whether or not to leave when ___ gets back into my opened set to see if he can pull. I ran more game on whoever was there, but I had already hooked up with my first college chick earlier so I didn’t really care too much.

We begin to walk to Edge’s car, when ___ called, he had successfully pulled the set. I see a new face in the crowd of girls I had deserted. She was about an 8 and the only possible target left. I sat in shotgun in the car but through her drunken rambling I was able to discern that she and I shared intrests. We were both into Zeppelin and LOTR, nerd like at its peak. I built comfort over the shoulder with her and we arrived at Edge’s.

She had a g in her bra and I was ecstatic. Ending this phenominal day blazing was something I was looking forward too. We mostly stayed in a group and discussed a wide variety of topics. We were sitting in a circlish form and nothing was happening in particular. BW, her friend Tubbs, and our friend DC went out to smoke. We went outside and I began to lose mental control. I had no real conversation with BW and I wasn’t really trying, but I began to flirt with her Tubbsy friend because I failed to comprehend reality accordingly. We went back inside and I embarassingly flirted more. The night ended with me wishing there were eleven more German girls where I was.

BW found me on facebook and we already had one friend in common. He started the PUA’s of Boston group on facebook. I joined and he friended me. About a week later she chatted me with something along the lines of “how do you know X?” We began to talk and I trasitioned off of this into comfort. We talked about our beliefs and I made her lol while discussing deep topics like morality and sexuality. FB chat was a really good way for me to build a ton of comfort and rapport, she genuinely liked chatting me and it became fairly regular. Eventually it came up that I was going to The House of Blues with my friend for a Girltalk concert. She said she lived right near there and gave me her number so we could blaze beforehand.

I was kind of confused when she said Tubbs was coming along but I decided to act like I never blammerdly flirted with her and concentrate on BW because I had gotten pretty far along with her on FB chat. We met up and things went really well, we were joking around like we were old friends and talking to eachother comfortably. She pulled another g out of her shirt and I danced with joy. Ignoring her friend worked perfectly too, and my friend and I left on a good note. Now I had her number and a ton of comfort.

She told me she was going away for a while, and I wasn’t too invested so I didn’t care much about it. While she was away we continued having random FB chats and talking intermittently. She was a cool girl to talk to and had some funny opinions. Sometimes we would text trippy thoughts too eachother, helping each other dissect the meanings.

She came back after a while, the night I was going out with Flow and Kingmelons to hit up frats in Boston I texted her to come meet me. She initially said no, but when I texted her “come meet me or I’m cheating on you” she said OK OK where do you wanna meet up. We found eachother at the first frat I went to and she was clinging to me hardcore. I wasn’t really thinking about hooking up with her then but she seemed really into it. I was just excited to run lots of game.

She saw me in about eight to ten different sets, as well as with the girl I succeeded with, HBFreck. Outside when bouncing she fought hard over me and it was so on with both I couldn’t help but chuckle. I din’t have too much contact with her later that night because I was busy hooking up with the other one, but I said my goodbye to her and she and her friends left.

The next weekend she texted me asking what I was doing. I told her I was heading into the city and she said I should come hang out with her. In her dorm. I decided to go for the lay. We got to the party she was at and I had mixed feelings. The party was lame but it presenteds a good opportunity to try with BW. I started the night by taking shots with KingMelons and I was becoming drunk quickly. BW was off talking and I was beginning to become frustrated, I said now or never and got into a set of her and one chodey looking guy.

Blew his ass out and I told her we should smoke, I knew she would be down. We began to leave when she got in another set of guys, I cavemaned her and picked her up over my sholder to leave. The walk back was cold but I escalated kino with her so she knew the deal at least subconsciously. Handholding to putting my armaround her shit was getting intense. We got back to her Tubbsy friends dorm. Her roommate left college so Tubbs had the room to herself and a free bed. While BW and I were trying to figure out the situation with smoking, KingMelons fell asleep lol. Yeah it was on. I felt her skin and was talking about how she was so soft lol. Then I made her stroke me, and I pulled her in to makeout. Got a little LMR blasted through that shit. She stopped me a little and said, “my boyfriend is going to sleep do you mind if I call him?” I was like no I don’t judge. She fucking called her boyfriend and said goodnight ai love you. She hung up and we got in bed, clothes started flying off and yeah first lay from game.

I did what Captain Jack suggested and asked her when she realized she was attracted to me afterwards. She said seeing me that night with all of the other girls she had to try not to make out with me right there. Pre-Selection is extremely powerful in creating attraction. But I think my cocky confidence played just as much of a role in getting her into me.

Thoughts/SP:

Unfortunately I wasn’t really able to convert her into an FB, things got weird when she texted me that she will go to hell for what she has done. And that she can’t trust herself anymore. The next time I invited her out she said she just can’t and I am pretty sure things are over. I need some better strategies for FB management and what to do after sex.

Building comfort over AIM is a great strategy that gets you far, especially with the inherent ambiguity of chat.

FR: Heavy Flow

Logistics:

Saturday January 23rd, 2010.

Locations: Frat Party1, Frat Party2

Wings: KingMelons, Flow, Legend, Edge

Pivot: BW

Report:

KingMelons and I got dropped off by a friend to meet up with Flow. After some discussion and text persuasion we decide to be at Frat1 at 11. At first BW was resilient to coming. She didn’t have a ride and she said the world was a scary place lol. I said ok. After 20 minutes I texted her that if she wasn’t coming I would cheat on her with NBC figure skaters. She caved and said shed meet us at Frat1. We begin making our way to the frat and do a couple warm up sets at the store. I decide to use “who lies more”, my standard opinion opener because I have it worked out. Hooks, it pumps my state a little, we head to Frat1.

We meet up with Legend and Edge at the door outside Frat1. Legend has written books on how to get into any party, and he managed to get both of the doormen to vouch for him lol. Being a supposed mpua comes with some fascinating knowledge. He even gets the doorman to vouch for all of us and they let us in the Frat after a short wait.

I wander around and open my first set of the night. It was a two-set containing a cute girl and her swamp monster of a friend. I approach with my standard direct group opener, “you guys seem cool blah” and it hooks. We get into a conversation when Flow comes in. Since the one girl was really cute, about a 9, he was into the set. We talked and things were going kind of well, but we stayed on a neg (you look like you’re from Kansas) for too long and the set was beginning to stall out. I got a call from BW anyway and went to meet her at the front.

She couldn’t get in at first, so I go back upstairs and meet up with Kingmelons and Legend. I see a four set and tried Sinn’s facebook opener. After I teased for accepting me to easily, a 7 in the set said something like “I didn’t hear you so I just said yes”. Either way it didn’t matter because a fucking AMOG stumbled in to blow my ass out. He imitated me and said “I’m using cheesy pickup lines blah blah”. Anyway I lost the set, I got into a battle with him and I think he won. I was trying to win by exaggerating frame (I asked him if he was a broom because he swept me off my feet), but the girls walked away mid battle so it didn’t matter lol.

BW got into the party somehow and met up with me. We were flirting as soon as she got there and she was all over me. I still wanted to run more game though so I ditched her after some light kino escalation.

Flow and I hooked more sets easily near where the beer funnel was, direct group openers tore up any transitioning period I would have to worry about. We ended up in an ok set and we wanted to leave so it didn’t really matter to us. BW kept finding me and grabbing my arm, trying to get my attention and stuff throughout the night. I used her to open an OK four set that went well. They left to dance and wanted her to go but she stayed with me. So I isolated her on the couch for a bit. Her friends came and Flow and I went to game more.

He pointed out HBFreck in the hallway. He told me she went to highschool too, and said I should approach her. I decided to go give it a shot. I opened her with “I heard you’re in high school” lol. At first she was like who told you but then when I told her I was too she went nuts. We had a world between us because of that commonality. We discussed how badass we are and how our friends are all pussys. She starts touching over me, kino escalating me hard. She gives me a shot of some liquor she had. Then BW walked into the set and I gave her a hug (JEALOUSY PLOTLINE BEGINS NOW MUHUHAHAHA). I lean back against the wall where I was standing with HBFreck and her attraction level is spiking. She’s giving me the eyes and presses up against me. I gaze back at her and she starts pulling my head in, she wanted to make out right there in set with KingMelons, Flow, and BW. I push her away and say “not now woman we’re in public”. She loves this and wraps herself around me. I told her I was leaving with Flow and our group to another frat and she wanted to roll w/ but needed to find her friend first. She found her friend and we started walking out. The second we get outside I look at her for a second inquisitively, then I just pulled her in and we made out. She went nuts for the five seconds we hooked up and then I pushed her off, it’s good to be challenging.

I’m outside in conversation with both BW and HBFreck, they are politely bitching each other out. That’s fucking right, girls were subtly fighting over me. Both of them were glaring at me with blatant "fuck me" eyes. If you know what I'm talking about it's unmistakable. I turned around and told Flow “I won the game” lol. We started to leave when Freck’s friend started freaking out and questioning where we were going and logistical stuff. Her friend wanted to go back to the party, and HBFreck told me she couldn’t go with me. I remembered not to beg her for anything and looked at her saying “if you want to stay that’s fine”. She convinced her friend to go with us.

We get to the destination but don’t really know the address, so we walk into some apartment building by accident. I cycle between hooking up and sexually framing her against the wall, I was setting things up for the SNL. I already worked out that she didn’t have to be home until she wanted too so I felt like It was set. We arrive at Frat2 and HBFreck won’t leave my side. Things seemed to be good and the best thing I could do was nothing. As it ended up however, neither of my wings attracted HBFreck’s friend enough to make her want to come back with us to Flow’s dorm. Extremely disappointing, because she ended up pulling the cockblock. HBFreck helplessly tried convincing her friend to let me put it in, but she couldn’t win. I got the number and plan on trying some new text game theory I’ve been learning about on her. A day2 would almost certainly end happily if I just don’t mess things up.

Flow and I open another set of people downstairs, a mixed set with three guys and two girls. We opened asking if KingMelons looked gay and disqualified with sexual preference. They rolled off but later I reopened with “who lies more”. The cute one in a bikini began to answer it when I cut her off with a cold read. I told her she looked like she wasn’t from around here or some BS and couldn’t really isolate. She ran off and we decided to bounce. Missed the fucking SNL, but I was close.

Sticking Points / Thoughts:

1) Sexual tension may have dissipated after I made out with HBFreck for too long at Frat2, I should reduce hooking up to preserve tension, instead I’ll qualify more next time
2) Instead of getting into AMOG battles I’ll ignore next time
3) The non-reactive answer to her threatening to leave went over perfectly. I’ll remember this
4) Jealousy fucking plotlines kill
5) Plowing can be used in the middle of people sentences effectively, interrupting
6) Two sets are a logistical problem.
7) Creating a private world creates an instant connection that sparks huge amounts of attraction, integrate this into a routine possibly roll-playing more often

FR: DRect

Logistics:

Sunday January 17th, 2010

Location: Tabu

Friends: KingMelons, Tallz, LSER, Yacob

Report:

Since too many things happened over the course of the night for me to remember the chronological order, I plan on making this more like a highlight reel of the night / observations type of report. I noticed a lot of interesting things and had a great night experimenting with only direct game. The only opener I used on groups was “I’ve been wandering around this bar looking for cool people to talk to and I can’t find any, but now I’ve found you guys, and we’re in a conversation. Cool.” The only opener I used on lone wolves was something that ranged from “you’re cute” to “you’re so fucking sexy”.

I roll into Tabu with KingMelons by my side, trying to come up with a game-plan. We walk to the non-dancing section and saw barely any sets. Most girls were on the dance floor standing or grinding with guys. This wasn’t an optimal situation for the night. But to start getting warmed up, I decided to dance with some girls, as it’s becoming second nature to me at this point to confidently approach on the dance floor. I still remember when I would look in and see guys doing crazy shit to the girls. I was intimidated by the insanity of the dance floor and would be too scared to try. It’s not the same at all, just a couple months later.

I started going from girl to girl in the hectic dimly lit environment, and I became calm and centered quickly. I felt like I was ready to do some approaches for real and just have a good time, because worst case I could always dance more. I walk to the seated area and get into a set with KingMelons. He points out his target with the tweedle-dum/tweedle-dee line and I distract the obstacles. He wandered away so I decided it was pointless and moved on.

I open a four set leaning against the bar with my group direct opener. It hooks immediately and they ask me where I’m from. The conversation began to stall out though, I couldn’t tell what to do because I felt material would regress my game since I went direct. I think I’ll use more attraction material in set next time.

I also opened a two set directly later. Same thing happened it hooked and went extremely well. We talked for about ten minutes until I had to meet my friend, I met up with them later on the dance floor. That one was a lot more natural and didn’t stall out. I was just being funny and having a good time.

I ran the direct opener on a five set. Same thing it blew open and they were all talking to me, fascinated that I could say something like that. One was like, do you want to take a picture with us? I said sure and the flash went off, with me in the middle of five fucking girls. PRESELECTION, especially when we went to dance later and they were all dancing around me. I was like the 10 in a group of hungry guys, except they were famished girls.

Opened another seated two set the same way. Again it hooked the second I closed my mouth. What is this? Do I have magical powers? Am I a warlock of some sort? No direct game fucking rules. But they ran to the bathroom for some girlish reason so it didn’t really go anywhere.

I didn’t even fuck around on the dance floor either, I was making my intent super clear all night. I remember one time when a wing and I were walking around looking for girls to dance with, I walked right up to them and loudly asked him which one he wanted. I honestly gave a fuck if they understood, which they definitely did bc I was pointing at them and shit while they were staring at us deciding which ones to take. Making intent known conveys ridiculous attraction and generates compliance, the dominant frame owns all.

At one point I was grinding with a girl and a black kid walked up behind one of her friends. Calmly, he used his hand to push her down on all fours, and started dry humping her from behind. Through all of our laughing and watching, he didn’t react to me or my girl once. He stayed congruent and he had that girl bent over for about fifteen minutes. At one point he made it ok for me, my girl said I could do that if I wanted, but I just felt uncomfortable raping on the dance floor. Another example of how congruence and dominant frame always prevails. Because he didn’t care what any of us thought, he was able to get away with scandalous shit I wouldn’t dream of. The extent that this applies with women blows my mind.

I managed to completely change one girl’s mentality through a combination of investment hoops and vulnerability bonding. I walked up to KingMelons in set and he pointed out his target. He wanted to dance with her but her group wouldn’t go because of their shy friend. I was like, “OK which one is she” lol. They pointed her out to me and I told her she looked cute. She was like thanks and I was like omg we have to dance, you have nothing to worry about. She initially said no, then I was like “are you serious? I’m a total dork I play Zelda all day I’m harmless”. She was laughing so I decided to try Brad P’s slow dancing technique again to make her more comfortable; I also figured it was a good medium hoop before grinding. We sweetly sway together to the blasting music while she firmly squeezes my hand. I tell her that she’s bringing up memories of sixth grade all over again. Finally Melons set and shy girl walk out to the dance floor, where I look at her like ok you’re ready and I flip her around to grind. Switchin’ up them mindsets BITCHEZ!

TWO MOST IMPORTANT SETS:

I learned the most from these sets, so I’ll describe them with a little more accuracy. The first girl I’ll call HBLibrarian. By consensus of LSER, KingMelons, and I she was a solid 9.5 if not 10 up close. She was gorgeous, it seemed like the whole club was looking at her. I opened her up directly (obv), I told her she was totally my type and I had to talk to her. I positioned myself against the bar so she was leaning next to me. BL down. We began to banter and I was throwing chick crack her way. Saying things like OMG I don’t date book nerds you need to get away from me come here I love you blah blah etc. I managed to flirt for about two minutes then we started to talk. She asked me if I had a girlfriend. For some reason I thought that was a shit test. I now realize how low my self-esteem really is, I couldn’t believe a ten was into me. It is completely out of my reality that she could like me, so I fucked up. I told her I was dating twenty girls here which was retarded because she was into me and I blew her off. So she told me to go find them then. Completely understandable response. I stayed in damage control with her for another minute or so when her peer group came. I told was talking to them about how their librarian friend was taking me to the “do it yourself” section, and I was like what do you mean do it yourself?? Lol they were laughing at her. But again she told me to go find my girlfriends. I think that was a shit-test now but I just left, thinking I fucked shit up.

I found HBLibrarian later seated. She was looking at me and biting her lips, it felt so on. I took her to the dance floor and she was doing crazy shit I had no idea what was going on. I also had everyone looking at me and didn’t feel relaxed, I was wondering what she was thinking. I told her she was a bad dancer and wanted to qualify to see where I was. I asked her what type of music she liked against the bar again but attraction was gone so she said everything. FUCKFUCKFUCK. Another ten slipped through my fingers. Whatever, abundance says there are tons of hot chicks out there and I was fired up.

I go back out to the dance floor. I saw this chick, she was texting, while people were smashing privates all around her. I walked up and I was like what the fuck are you texting for lets dance. She kind of sucked but she was cute so I stayed with her for a couple minutes.

Then out of the corner of my eye, like it was fate, I spot an HB9 walk by me to the edge of the dance floor. She was sooo my type, about 5’ 4” with a nice ass and her tities were pushing out her sexy schoolgirl attire. She was looking into the floor alone and I realized that was my chance. I fucking threw the girl I was with off me and headed towards her. I tell her “you’re so fucking sexy, let’s dance”. No pussy-footing around. Makeout. Then she walked away. It was a pretty gangster kiss close in my opinion. Wicked night for me and KingMelonz overall.

SP / Thoughts:

1) The ten problem will only resolve itself with more experience in field
2) Need more A2 material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct game is cheating (my new favorite style)
4) A good PUA can change mindsets easily with calibration and sets of investment hoops
5) Maybe I should take a dance class with Melons
6) Dominant frame and non-reactivity overrides social awkwardness

FR: Melon Party

Logistics:

Saturday, January 16th 2010

Location: Melons House

Wings: YP, KingMelons, RM, Tallz

Pivot: SM, EB, Redz

Report:

I knew I would have a hard time at this party, because I got substantially high beforehand. Honestly, I was looking down at the world underneath my feet. Lime Haze is powerful. But either way, I couldn’t just sit and relax even though I wanted too. I have turned myself into a game machine, and I can’t stop my body from throwing me into sets at this point. My game was off for the most part because of this paradox, and yet the report goes as follows.

Returning to KingMelons house from downtown Boston at around 9, the party began. No one was really there at first, so I got into a heated game of ping pong downstairs with a couple friends. Then people began to file in. At first, they were all people from my school that I knew, so I wasn’t too stoaked, but I knew I could still have fun. I went upstairs to talk to KingMelon, then when I went back down An HB9 who I hadn’t talked to in three years but I used to be friends with was in the doorway. She stopped me and we began to chat.

She brought up callback humor. The name I used to call her, fetus, made me laugh and we talked for a little before she said that the conversation was a little awkward. I asked her why, and she pointed at this girl next to her who was laughing. I actually hadn’t seen her until she pointed her out. Lol talk about tunnel vision. She was an HB2 at the most who I guess was laughing while I was trying to mack. Anyway I looked at her puzzled, and ejected because I wanted to get some beer.

Later I went back to talk to her by walking up next to her and talking to EB, who was on her other side. I struck up a conversation with her, but by the time I turned around my target had left… FUCK. I had time but I was waiting for a cue or something that never came. I need to take more initiative game wise.

Next my friend YP arrived, and he had a HB9+ from his school on his side. I asked if he was going for her and he was. Upsetting, but I understood. I AI’d YP with the girl and went off into some set of my friends for random conversation.

Finally new girls came, and I was pulled into set with them by Tallz. He AI’d me and I began to talk, but my game was so off I couldn’t keep a convo going with these girls. There was nothing particularly attractive about them, but I decided to try to run Best Friends Test anyway to see if it would work. It absolutely bombed, proving even more to me that game isn’t about what you say it’s about your attitude and the frame you put out. Good mental side note. Since they weren’t responding I just ejected.

I chilled with friends for a while until another new set of girls came. In the party area, they walked in and positioned themselves against the wall. They were alright, but sitting and watching the chode crystal slowly form from across the room was interesting enough for me to not approach yet. RM who is pretty competent approached first, and then hordes followed. They were peering over each others shoulders at the girls while he gamed, and I was explaining the chodes loss of value from bad BL to a friend sitting next to me. He could see it happening as well.

After RM rolled out, the chode stalactite fell apart and the girls were by themselves. I begin to make eye contact with one of them, and she is receptive. We hold each others gaze for about four seconds before she looks away. Again, I felt like I would blow it, but I approached anyway. I walk up to the girl who made eye contact and said “hi”. I introduced myself to her and her friends and we talked for a little until she became completely non-responsive and said “I’m so high right now”. I laughed and back turned her because I legitimately fail at plowing under the influence, it’s kind of sad but at least I know my SP’s vary based on states of consciousness.

Some time goes by and I go upstairs because new people are arriving again. I spot SM and give her a hug. We get into a conversation about her fight with YP and I tell her that if he asks I think she’s a man eating bitch. It creates a sexual tension barrier between us that I know will make things flirty for the night. She introduces me to some cute friends of hers, strolling me in on my arm. I talk to the group and all of them begin to ask questions about me, and I am finally in state. It took three failed sets but it happened, even under the influence. I didn’t think it was possible. The problem is that my state is situational, it needs to be from within. I still have inner game issues to work on.

Anyway, I leave SM’s set to give YP some consolation. I tell him she’s the devil, he happens to be in a mixed 6 set, with 3 girls (an HB4, and two HB9’s). I begin to talk to the set as a whole and they are loving me. We talk about the usual shit, then I notice the cuter HB9 is giving me shit tests. I look at her and roll my eyes then continue talking to one of the guys. Reds walked out of the house behind me and I gave her a hug for pre-selection. Then I negged the target in group for making a loud pointless comment and her group laughed. After that she started giving me IOI’s like a free candy. She was asking me where I was from, who I was, and the typical boring stuff. I ignored half her questions to talk to the group, then I told her I was Russian and she kept saying Russian phrases to try to get my attention. When she said I love you I looked and said aww. I asked her for her name which I now forgot and was about to sit next to her and ask her a small qualification hoop question when she had to go…

Didn’t really get to take that interaction anywhere but before she left I called her a dork and she responded with “that’s rude” smiling. I rolled my eyes once again and her set along with SM and the rest of the girls left. Interesting night.

SP / Thoughts:

1) Negging works like a fucking charm, I tease normally, but her interest here spiked so fast it was ridiculous
2) I need to have a sold structure to my game. Winging it doesn’t really get me the results I want
3) Struggling with inner game issues
4) Need to learn how to AI wings better
5) Stop ejecting out of set when things are going fine
6) Gaming high makes me have to relearn the basics, I should try to stay sober or tips

FR: Natick

Logistics:

Friday, January 15th 2010

Location: Natick Mall

Wings: Tallz, KingMelon

Report:

We arrive at the Natick mall around 4, looking for some sets to day game. I have been making a conscious effort recently to be more direct, because I saw how it helps game a lot and propels thins right into qualification. We beging to look around.

I spot a set walking towards me and Tallz with a HB8+ and her Ugg friend. I open them with “who lies more”. The stop and we begin transitioning, DHVing etc. the set is going pretty well and at one point we hit the hook point, they were contributing.

Mini-Cold read – You look like the good one (to target) and you’re the bad one UGG.

Best Friends test with TD’s addition. Had them giggling

After this, the body language we had (facing them leaning against the wall) was to out of the ordinary to continue. We stalled out of the convo and ended up losing the set.

We continued to roll around the mall and I make eye contact with a gorgeous two-set. They were seated together on one chair so it wasn’t optimal, but I decided to open anyway. I went direct since they were very cute and I wanted to try it.

I open them with “hey I know this is totally random, but you guys are really cute and I would’ve kicked myself if I didn’t come up to talk to you”. It worked like a charm and they were laughing from the beginning. One said “my name is Marina”. I was like “my mom’s name is Marina… AWKWARD”. They giggled then we got into a normal conversation with Tallz. Turns out they were from my town and one of them dated a friend of mine. Kind of random but it helped with rapport a lot.

Also I am starting to see that hot girls can practically get whatever they want in this world. They were extremely hot girls, I’d say HB9 and an HB9.5. They were at the mall that day because one of the girls got texting taken away, and her friend (orbiter) who was working there was putting it back on her phone for free. WTF? Lol. I couldn’t really escalate, I built attraction but wasn’t able to timebridge before they left. So me and Tallz settled on connecting with them on FB.

I ran another set that blew open, it was easy and I had to go so I didn’t really take it anywhere. I opened with “what should I get for my thirteen year old niece’s birthday?” They hooked/loved it. Good day overall.
Sticking Points / Thoughts:

1) Need to come up with something to alter BL position
2) Maybe need more material so sets don’t stall out
3) Direct Game wrecks